Stop the Mad "Makeover"

   By twistedsister1  Feb 04, 2008
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hen was the last time you went to a cosmetic counter within a specialty store (like Sephora) or department store (from Saks or Macy’s) to seek expert advice from the beauty advisor? Was your intention to create a “new you”, a total updated, cosmetic look, or just to window shop and see if a particular new shade of lipstick caught your eye?

Perhaps, inebriated by the possibilities of change or seduced by the tantalizing offers, this was your first flirtation with the makeup brush wielding, cosmetic maven at the store who most assuredly promised to create a whole different person, really a “new you”.

Regardless of how you came to sit in the chair and stare at yourself in that less than feature enhancing, fluorescent-lit mirror, you find yourself suddenly credit card slip in hand, lugging home hundreds of dollars of cosmetics. Then the sinking feeling slowly starts to permeate your gait. You know you will leave those bags untouched, unopened for days, as you grapple to overcome the “why did I do that & should I return it” syndrome. The symptoms are easy to recognize ? from buyer’s remorse to guilt to indifference - but the cause is less obvious. Simply put, you do not know how to begin to duplicate the beauty maven’s Edward Scissorhand approach to application, and even worse, are not sure that her vision of what you should look like is even right for you. You looked great when you left the store but creating this “new you” is now a blind date with your mirror.

Ladies, you have been the victim of the dreaded “makeover!” How do we know this? We are Tina Hedges and Beth Ann Catalano, co-presidents of twist and have over 40 years in developing, marketing and selling products that (we hope) you buy at cosmetic counters. And, of course, as beauty experts, we have a definite point of view on how to recover from this first date with lotions, potions, blushes, lipsticks, foundations and brushes as well as how to get the most information and service from your local beauty advisor.

reating any relationship takes effort. Creating a relationship with a beauty advisor is no different. Attraction, a good impression, chemistry, good eye contact, thoughtful questioning, and committing to see each other again is the beginning of a friendship. Perhaps, a single, casual, one nightstand is all the other party wanted and you feel taken advantage of when you open your Amex bill. In some cases, there is no other way to say it, you feel made-over, rolled-over, coifed, plucked, dusted, glazed and just plainly, wham, bam and thank you Ma’am-ed. And this feeling lingers, making you recoil slightly the next time you walk thru the aisles of the beauty department. Could this describe your feeling about the advisor at the beauty counter after your last “makeover?”

Beauty advisors are knowledgeable consultants. Connecting and finding the right fit is key. Posturing yourself with the right attitude will help you gain valuable service and information from a beauty professional. It is also necessary to become your own expert and develop the right relationship with yourself, so here are a few of our thoughts:



Remember, take control of your newfound expertise. No one is an expert, at first. If you have selected the right teacher, are committed to learning, and are open to discussing options, creating a relationship with someone that can help you look and feel more confident, sexier, and more beautiful is like, well, like finding the right love affair.

Uhmmmm, sounds like that French playboy both of us fought over the last trip to Nice?. But that’s a different lesson?.

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meowmix by meowmix | peach bottom, PA
Oct 04, 2008

I don't know why they don't sell the stuff for less instead of selling it for a ginormous amt of money and giving "free stuff" worth hundreds so to speak. Just sell me an inexpensive, uncomplicated product that works. Does this really exsit out there? Oh yes, did I say one that WORKS?

tesa33 by tesa33 | GIG HARBOR, WA
Oct 03, 2008

this is helpful! i hate going to the counters--they almost always push me to buy something i don't like on myself & i don't speak up enough. plus i feel embarassed to try without buying, & they MAKE you feel that way!

meowmix by meowmix | peach bottom, PA
Oct 01, 2008

I get my makeup at Dollar General --they have name brands and whole lot cheaper. When food is so expensive, I can't see paying $50 for skin cream! Avon products are really great too!They actually work!

ajhand by ajhand | Brandon, MS
Sep 30, 2008

Great advice! I love the "see one, try one" idea.

secretlover_at by secretlover_at | grand rapids, MI
Sep 24, 2008

ooo.. running the other way.. um yup that's me..i never ever buy from the counter... way to chicken....i dunno why but when i used to go.. i always felt like they knew what i should wear.... and i would come out looking like an over made up clown... thank you for showing me.. i do have control

shessburg by shessburg | Groveland, FL
Sep 24, 2008

This is so true its like you walk up to the counter and forget that you know yourself better than anyone but you have to have their advice about YOUR makeup. Next time i'm explaining exactly what I went to the store for!

manette by manette | Yucaipa, CA
Sep 23, 2008

I still have make-up, in my make-up jar from high-school. I hardly wear it, it's time for some new tips and where to buy new "good-make up".

Boulder121 by Boulder121 | Erie, CO
Sep 23, 2008

Great article. Very informative. THANKS!!!!

keefaschick by keefaschick | Natick, MA
Sep 23, 2008

Very helpful, I alway feel very pressured when I go to a beauty counter to buy make and it's usually just a product or two and I end up coming home with bags

bonnie_al by bonnie_al | Ceres, CA
Sep 21, 2008

Very helpful tips! I will never think of it as a makeover again!

janedough by janedough | TROUT CREEK, MT
Sep 21, 2008

I live in a very rual area and these tips arent really very helpfull as I dont have time for a make up artist when I have to travel to town. Id like to see some truely free samples with no catches, made available. I have some idea of what to do with make up but am tried of buying make up i am alerigic too or is the wrong shade. I also have no idea of how far I'd have to travel to get expert help. It would be 500 miles at least.

agranote by agranote | Fenton, MO
Sep 20, 2008

loved the tips very helpful!!

sike4002 by sike4002 | Corpus Christi, TX
Sep 20, 2008

The thing that bothers me the most is when I go to the counter trying to get help and the consultants are too busy gossiping to do their job. I understand if they were in the middle of something, but to be ignored just infuriates me. There have been a few times when I had the money for the purpose of buying some new makeup and I wasn't able to get help. I went to the counter asking and trying to find new things, but they just wanted me to pick it out myself and refused to help.

travelbug4 by travelbug4 | Interlachen, FL
Sep 18, 2008

Thank you so much for the helpful information. Made a mistake once of having the counter makeup. Oh my gosh I looked like a clown because I was afraid to say something. My first encounter. I have since tried new products and colors and have had good results.

pattidc by pattidc | orange, CA
Sep 18, 2008

great informative tips! its also great to know, Im not the only one out there that has a problem of saying no