Who's the Better Boss?

   By drodriguez  Aug 04, 2009
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If you had a choice between having a female boss or a male boss, which would you choose?  And would the choice really matter?  A recent article from the New York Times talks to the experts about whether women make better bosses than men in the business world.  What they found out is very interesting. 

Alice Eagley, chairman of social psychology at Northwest University, has done extensive research on managerial behavior.  What Eagley has found out through studies and research is that women bosses are less "bossy" and tend to use a more collaborative and democratic method. Eagley also said, "compared with men, women use a more positive approach by encouraging and urging others rather than a negative approach of scolding and reprimanding them."

Author of How Remarkable Women Lead, Joanna Barsh, reports that women in places of authority can often excel because they tend to look for more meaning in their work than men.  Barsh said that men often go for higher salary and status.  She believes however, that women do need to stop multitasking as they often do, "When you attempt to facilitate a phone conference while doing email, your brain switches between tasks, and you lose focus and energy." 

Women may also have a leg up on their male counterparts because they are good "mind readers".  According to columnist and psychologist, Susan Pinker, women produce more of a hormone called oxytocin that has been proven to make them read people’s expressions and process emotions quicker than men.  After men were given doses ofoxytocin (squirted up their nostrils) they were found to have these "mind reading" skills as well.

What do you think of some of the differences between male and female bosses?

Have you noticed any differences in your work place?

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maylisa40 by maylisa40 | Phoenix, AZ
Aug 16, 2009

My last boss was a gay male in an office and region that employed mostly females. He has been one of the best bosses that I have had in my over 20 years of my career. Women have a tendacy to gossip and bring personal issues into areas where important decisions need to be made. Straight male bosses seemed to avoid confrontations with females and relied on a higher female for confrontational matters. I feel that it does not depend on the boss but who you are as a employee.

cherbear61 by cherbear61 | Battle Creek, MI
Aug 16, 2009

I have both male and female bosses in which I really enjoyed . Although I personally feel in the field I am in presently taking care of others on a more personal level I definitely feel a woman is the better choice to be more sensitive to their needs and the structure that is needed

seamstress by seamstress | Madison, OH
Aug 16, 2009

I would chose a male. I worked in officed for 45 years and have had both male and female bosses. GIVE ME A MALE any day of the week. Many women are moody, spiteful and don't know how to handle power. I always felt that I was held back by a female but the male bosses I had encouraged me to take training, to move ahead to go to the next level and were never spiteful when I was promoted. I am a very focused person and have a good work ethic where as many woman are flighty and do not remain focused. Females seem to resent you when you know something they do not or how to get things done better; whereas men are grateful to just get it done. All in all, I just work better with men.

msharl01 by msharl01 | Jackson, MI
Aug 15, 2009

I am always more intimaded by males in power roles. They always seem to let the power go to their heads. They never really feel women can be equal to them, so why would they be a fair boss.

freads by freads | Chatham, NJ
Aug 15, 2009

I think it is more an individual's personality and managerial style more so than gender that determines a good boss. It is also subjective because if your personality/work ethic is very similar to your boss' then you feel more comfortable working for that person. For example, I prefer to make decisions based on all options but fairly quickly and like to see that in a boss as opposed to someone who is indecisive or procrastinates.

Tabiti by Tabiti | riverdale, IL
Aug 15, 2009

I think that a male boss will be better than a woman boss. It could be because im a woman and all my male bosses was more nicer to me than a woman boss. Cause at times my female boss will get angry and will yell at me to do this and that. I think we as woman hold our anger that we have towards our kids and husband and take it out on people who are happy with life. While man hold nothing and let everything out. So to me i conclud man are better bosses tha woman.

cyndi21 by cyndi21 | Geneva, OH
Aug 15, 2009

I have had the pleasure (and sometimes displeasure) of working with both genders. I have had two female bosses who were wonderful, no drama at all. They were very businesslike, but friendly and fair minded. On the other hand, I've had female bosses who were not so good; no drama, but very disorganized and unprepared. My male bosses have mostly been quite good. I did have one male boss who was all drama. He was something else. I've also had male bosses who were very organized and some no so organized. Men do tend to be less dramatic than women though. If given the choice, I would probably choose a male over a female boss.

gabbagabba04 by gabbagabba04 | Ireton, IA
Aug 15, 2009

I have always had a male boss, and I have found them to all be wonderful at their job. I have no personal experience with a female boss to compare this to, but my mom has had a female boss for nearly 15 years now, and I always hear the stories of her bosses mood swings and hormonal rampages. You just don't have that with a man. My boss is so good at maintaining a professional attitude all through the workday.

Delightful by Delightful | Parrish, AL
Aug 14, 2009

I worked for a very large company for 20 years, I was able to quit work in 2004. I do have to say Men make better bosses. This is just from my experience. I had both men and women for bosses, I don't want this taken personal by anyone, but women are weak. If you get in her click, you have got it made. Men seem to be more persistent especially in the area of treating all employees equal.

Bears_Mouse by Bears_Mouse | Phoenix, AZ
Aug 14, 2009

In my experience, I tend to feel uncomfortable and intimidated my male bosses. With female bosses, everything was more relaxed, communicable, and just over all more pleasent. For me, it was easier to get up and go to my job when my boss was a woman.

jaimbly by jaimbly | Rockaway, NJ
Aug 14, 2009

I work for an almost all-female company and I have found that my bosses are very considerate of personal and family obligations. But at the same time some of my female bosses feel the need to exert their power and I think they feel they need to show that they can be as assertive as men. We also often have a problem with both employees and bosses taking things very personally which I would say is symptomatic of the overwhelmingly female environment.

suza_q by suza_q | Lynd, MN
Aug 14, 2009

I would rather have a male boss, because as stated in earlier posts they are less moody and keep work as it should be. I have worked for both and women are definately more dramatic and catty.

mbolen56 by mbolen56 | Rome City, IN
Aug 14, 2009

I have had both. I would rather have a male boss any day. Females can be catty and moody. Depending on the day and hormone level, you never know if you have to run for cover or if it's safe to come out.

ingriddgibson by ingriddgibson | MIRAMAR, FL
Aug 14, 2009

The Female Boss that I have know is a joy. She is better then any male boss that i have ever had.

redemy403 by redemy403 | Catharpin, VA
Aug 14, 2009

Not all but many women have maternal and TLC qualities that may make them a better boss. I think women are also scared of coming across as too strong or bossy because they often and quickly become known as the "B" word. Women also tend to be more emotionally invested in things and that could work both for or against them. It may be true that more often male bosses tend to be demanding and negative, but they may also hold a higher percentage of boss positions. So, I would like to know separately out of female bosses and male bosses, what percentage of both are considered mean?