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Plus Size Model Tess Holliday Talks About Baby-Bump Shaming

Plus Size Model Tess Holliday Talks About Baby-Bump Shaming

Last year we shared the news of model Tess Holliday’s major milestone when at a size 22 she was signed with a UK based modeling agency. In a time when most “plus-size” models are never above a size 16, Holliday has managed to represent a curvier fuller-figured woman we may be used to seeing on the streets but never on the catwalk. But now, Holliday is speaking up to tell all the body shamers that it’s not cool to make rude comments to an expecting mother.

Today reports about Holliday’s run-in with all the baby-bump shamers she has encountered online after announcing her pregnancy. The model, who is now 8 months pregnant, expected some backlash after she and her fiance announced they were having a child. Holliday says, “Funny enough, [fiancé] Nick and I had a day of peace when we announced we were pregnant. We literally had one day of peace where everybody was nice to us on the Internet. It felt like 'The Twilight Zone.”

Though the peaceful well-wishing continued, Holliday also became inundated with mean-spirited comments from people making jokes about her weight and claiming she wasn’t healthy enough to carry a baby. Holliday explains, “"People would say there was no way I could carry a child and be healthy, or there was no way I could conceive in general because I'm too big. I have human reproductive parts! I was amazed by the audacity of what people are capable of.”

Now, 3 months after her announcement and at 8 months pregnant, Holliday bravely stood in front of a mirror for a selfie in her bra and panties to show the naysayers that she still feels good about her body no matter what they say. The photo, which she posted to Facebook, is captioned with some words about her pregnancy and the body-shaming she has had to learn to deal with over the last few months. Holliday writes, “As I enter my 8th month, my body overall looks the same other than my belly & I'm okay with that. What I've had to be learn to be okay with (WHICH IS NOT COOL) is the fact that people still think it's okay to comment on my body: ‘you don't look pregnant’, ‘you must be have quadruplets’, ‘you are putting your baby at risk’ & a slew of other uneducated statements that are very far from my reality.”

Holliday also explains how most people in the public eye are held to different standards and expected to look fit and lose baby weight right away. She says, “When ‘celebrities’ are pregnant in the press, they look glamorous, toned & are eager to talk about how they are going to get the baby weight off. While I've done my best to look as put together as possible, that's not real life, & it's not for most women.”

What do you think of Tess Holliday’s response to the mean spirited comments about her body during pregnancy?

Do you think people are more likely to make negative comments when a plus size woman is pregnant?

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  • Tammy97229 By Tammy97229
    04.28.16  

    It is amazing to me that people can be so cruel to another person! It's easy to pass judgement on another through a computer. Bullying is bullying no matter what the situation. I think it's great that she is confident enough to stand up to these people. She should be able to enjoy her pregnancy like any other woman. Just because she is a celebrity and model doesn't make it okay for people to comment and be rude.

  • LindaMarieP By LindaMarieP
    05.15.16  

    The people who have said these things should be ashamed. Having a baby and pregnancy is a very special time in a woman's life, why ruin it for her?

  • LindaMarieP By LindaMarieP
    05.15.16  

    The people who have said these things should be ashamed. Having a baby and pregnancy is a very special time in a woman's life, why ruin it for her?

  • Paigesummer By Paigesummer
    07.12.16  

    she is beautiful!

  • Rachael1289 By Rachael1289
    08.02.16  

    Hell, if she likes the way she looks, what's it matter to anyone else? And not many mothers I know would risk their child's life by being unhealthy. People are so intrusive and mean. She was trying to share a happy moment in her life and got so much unnecessary negativity brought into her life!!! That's so wrong. Any decent human being would offer her nothing but love, good vibes, and support. Alright, ending my rant.

  • TABBICAT_67 By TABBICAT_67
    08.16.16  

    I love how confident she was to post that picture of herself. People shouldn't be saying mean things to her just because she's not slim and skinny. I think she's beautiful and she deserves to be noticed for speaking out to all the rude and hate filled people.

  • SammiJo By SammiJo
    09.03.16  

    People are more likely to get negative comments when pregnant if they're plus size. I had extremely rude comments made to me while I was pregnant with my son. Those types of people who are saying all of these rude and rash statements and comments to Tess are ignorant.

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