Labor Day has passed, which means summer is unofficially over. But that doesn't mean the fun has to end.
Check out these tips to make the weekend feel like a vacation and enter to win a $75 Visa gift card to splurge on your weekend.
You're more likely to have an exciting weekend when you have something exciting to do. But it's hard to find an activity when it's last minute. From now on, plan in advance without doing extra work. When you hear about a festival that sounds fun, a concert you want to see, or a place a friend bragged about going to, don't just "try and remember it." Open up your calendar right then and schedule it in. Then when it's Thursday and you're wondering what you'll do over the weekend, you'll already have something planned.
Don't over-schedule. Now that you have fun activities on your calendar, it may be natural to spend the rest of your time doing errands and chores you need to do. Which leaves you feeling exhausted on Sunday night. Try to book one big activity each weekend and then leave some time open for spontaneity. Allow a few hours to read a book, catch up on your favorite show, go for a jog or cook a delicious meal. What makes you feel good? Do it.
We know that it's hard to have the energy during the week to clean the bathroom or go grocery shopping. But if you do one chore each night, that's five less chores you'll have to do on the weekend. Try cleaning the bathroom after the kids go to bed, buying a birthday present on your lunch break, or writing out your grocery list on the commute home. That way, the weekend errands will be done faster and you'll have more time to enjoy.
Sometimes, we try to arrange time with friends, but when Saturday night doesn't work out, we give up. Remember that there are 48 hours in a weekend - 54 if you start counting on Friday evening. So meet friends for a Friday night out. Yes, you'll be tired from work, but seeing other people will energize you. And don't waste Sunday thinking about work the next day. Instead, arrange a Sunday dinner date. Not only are friends more likely to be free on Friday and Sunday nights, it's also easier to get a babysitter if you need one.
Seeing other people's fun adventures on social media will make you feel like whatever you are doing isn't as awesome. Stop making comparisons. Instead, focus on the moment you are in. If you're on a bike ride with your kids, enjoy it. If you're having drinks with new friends, focus on them. If you're getting together with family, cherish the time you have making memories. Don't think about what others are doing right then. Plus, time goes by too quickly when you are staring at a screen. Don't waste those precious weekend hours!
If all else fails, take a micro-cation. Micro-cations, or mini-vacations, are the latest trend in travel. Instead of taking one long vacation each year, micro-cations spread out your vacations into several long weekends so there are more times to look forward to. Think a good vacation can't be done in one weekend? Think again. If you sneak out at lunchtime on Friday, you can get to your destination by Friday evening, and you have almost two whole days of fun before returning on Sunday night. Or better yet, take Friday off, leave after work on Thursday, and you have almost three days, which can really feel like an escape. Our favorite way to micro-cation is to watch travel websites, where you can often find specials on flights or hotels, or even last-minute vacations. If you see something good, book it, and figure out the logistics later!
How are you making the most of your weekends? Tell us to win a $75 Visa gift card to spend on weekend fun!
*One lucky contestant will be chosen at random to receive a $75 Visa card. Giveaway is open through September 22, 2019 to U.S. residents at least 18 years of age. Entrants must be a member of SheSpeaks. If you are not a member, click here to join. Winner will be notified by email.
Update: Thanks to all who entered! Congrats to our winner, SheSpeaks member nooneyouknow.
I'm looking forward to watching my kids run Cross Country this weekend.
Trying to make the most of the festivals that are going on in the city!
We try to get to the zoo, the aquarium or a theme park on the weekends.
by sammie01
Work never ends but weekend is always for my husband and kids, I love to Cook for them and make them feel special. We will watch animation movie on weekend and after that spend all time together by sharing our views and thoughts with each others.
I am solo most weekends and I enjoy browsing through thrift stores, flea markets and yards sales to discover new-to-me unique treasures while sticking to a very frugal budget.
I get up early to get everything done so I have the rest of the day to do something fun. And I like to make plans beforehand.
Finally getting the hose clean!
I love these tips, some I already do but now I have more in my tool box.
I was in DC with my DD
Relax, relax, relax! Also, getting out and doing something fun on occasion. :-)
I look forward to long walks outside and siting outside and reading.
I am a full time student so on the weekends my husband and I spend the first day doing laundry, chores, shop, and any business related things we need to do. The second day is reserved for anything fun we wish to do like hiking, kayaking, spending time with friends and family, maybe even a hockey game. Our third day off is spend lounging, recharging, practicing self-care and well-being, and spending as much time together and with our fur baby as possible.
I spend most of my weekend time spontaniously. I am on a limited income so I don't plan anything expensive.
We go to the beach almost every weekend throughout the years. It's our favorite place to relax and regroup.