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Wedding Gift Wars: Should Guests Get Their Gifts Back if a Marriage Fails?

Wedding Gift Wars: Should Guests Get Their Gifts Back if a Marriage Fails?

For couples like Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries, who spent a longer time planning their lavish wedding than actually being married, deciding what to do with the wedding gifts has probably been difficult. TMZ recently revealed Kim K’s solution; she has doubled the value of her wedding gifts which she estimates to be about $100,000 worth and made a large donation in her guests’ honor.

This may seem like an acceptable solution to some but to others, like Kim K’s ex-hubby Kris Humphries, they believe the right thing would have been to return all of the gifts on top of making a donation. And with their separation announced months ago, some feel Kardashian has taken her sweet time in dealing with the issue of her wedding gifts.

With reports of Kris Humphries’ disapproval over Kim’s handling of the gifts, one has to question why he wasn’t more involved in the decision. And there is also the question of why he hasn’t returned personal gifts he received, like a $5,000 gift card Kim Kardashian’s friend Jonathan Cheban  says he gave Humphries.

Do you think Kim Kardashian’s decision to make a donation in her guests’ honor in lieu of returning wedding gifts is the right thing to do?

And do you think Kris Humphries has the right to show his disapproval or should he have taken a more active role in her decision?
 

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  • meclark92 By meclark92
    03.12.12  

    Yeah, I'd say since wedding etiquette about giving wedding gifts dictates that you should give your gift to the couple within a year, I think that if the marriage ends within a year, the couple should give the gifts back. I think Humphries' should have had a more active role. He should have control over half of the gifts and should be able to send back his half to guests. It's all just a petty act to get ratings and attention.

  • msfriendly By msfriendly
    03.12.12  

    That's up to the couple to decide what to do. The gift-giver should not expect it to be returned...it was a gift.

  • MadHatter By MadHatter
    03.12.12  

    if the marriage was as short as 2 months, then yes i do believe that they should return the gifts...

  • agaphmou By agaphmou
    03.12.12  

    I don't know whether or not they should be returned,but I'm swaying towards yes.Another point I want to make is that why should she get all the gifts?! She didn't marry herself! Well in this case I guess she did because this wedding was a sham ,a money-making scam.All the kardashians can go to heck.I also hope that these guests who gave them gifts never go to any other their weddings again

  • Hermster By Hermster
    03.12.12  

    For the amount of time they were married give the gifts back.

  • MrsA2012 By MrsA2012
    03.13.12  

    I with you, Im over this whole Kardashian thing, fad, whatever you want to call it.

  • sunnydayys By sunnydayys
    03.13.12  

    A gift is a gift. Even in this case, I would say no.

  • SpeakingForYou By SpeakingForYou
    03.14.12  

    The marriage was very short.....I think she should return the gifts. If the giver tells her to keep it, at least she would feel good about offering to return it. What about a second marriage......does the giver buy another gift?

  • basilandcatnip By basilandcatnip
    03.15.12  

    This was a topic of conversation on The Talk a few weeks back. One host made the comment that etiquette says you have 1 yr from the wedding date to give a gift. ...maybe smart thinking in some cases.

  • MomeeGina By MomeeGina
    03.20.12  

    No, a gift is a gift. I say keep them.

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