Thanksgiving Throwdown

   By drodriguez  Nov 22, 2010
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Your family may be bringing the pumpkin pie and stuffing to the Thanksgiving table this year, but they will probably also bring the tension and conflict.  For many women Thanksgiving translates into high anxiety, this according to a new survey released from iVillage that asks women what their Thanksgiving is like with family.

The poll reveals that 68 percent of women expect there to be some type of family drama at their Thanksgiving celebration before the dessert is served.  It didn’t matter whether the respondent was hosting the feast or not.  

Half of the women who were not hosting Thanksgiving this year responded saying that their own family would end up annoying them throughout the holiday, while 57 percent said their in-laws would be the ones responsible for causing the anxiety.  Women placed most of the in-law blame on sister-in-laws and mother-in-laws.  One in ten women admitted that they were actually dreading the coming holiday.

One additional cause of stress for a lot of women this year will most likely be related to the poor economy.  The poll reveals that more than 40 percent of women are attempting to combat their money troubles by using coupons to pay for their Thanksgiving feast.  

Do you expect there to be conflict with family members at your Thanksgiving day feast this year?

How do you deal with tension at the dinner table?

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CrystalBurgard by CrystalBurgard | N TONAWANDA, NY
Nov 23, 2010

I am thankful I have a very small family with no drama for the holidays. We are more interested in eating a wonderful meal and enjoying each others company then spending time arguing over trivial or not so trivial things.

MadHatter by MadHatter | Whitestone , NY
Nov 23, 2010

Thanksgiving is always where the "big men" try to out do each other in talking. My dad and Uncles would always talk over every one or try to argue about something that they might have absolutely no knowledge about. Which I find slightly annoying. I hope that this Thanksgiving there would be less of that and more of a family ?how is everyone doing?? time.

LT6609 by LT6609 | Natick, MA
Nov 23, 2010

I was just telling my co-worker yesterday about how I was dreading the holiday because there is always subtle drama. My extended family is primarily girls who are very competitive with each other. Everyone takes little gabs at each other all day long.

msfriendly by msfriendly | MONROE, WI
Nov 23, 2010

I am really lucky that our family gets along quite well. We usually don't have any drama at our holiday gatherings.

Nillebob by Nillebob | KNOXVILLE, TN
Nov 23, 2010

No conflict at my family table. If there were any we would just joke it away. We are just thankful for everything that God has given us...family included!