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bluesubaru

trying to get on with life and attend a church.

on Sep 02, 2012

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I have been through some major issues in my life in the past ten years, horrable pregancies and a child with disablity, and my husband was in a horrable accident and almost lost his life. during this time, I have lost a lot off friends. and I also decided to quit attending a church, the problem is that just lately i have felt really guilty. I have two children and I really would like them to attend a place of worship like i did. I am a relgious person I have just become very shy, and I don't like to deal with drama. I just tend to stay in my own world. I have a great relationship with my mom, and family I just cant get over the place where i get up get my kids dressed and head to church. I can do it for just about anything but not church. I don't want my kids jaded about it like i am. I want them to enjoy it.

divasundae

on Sep 04, 2012

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Trust me when I say there is ways to worship outside of church. You can get your kids together and teach them how to pray. even hold bible study. He hears you no matter where you are. My boyfriend watch religion programs on tv and pay his ties to every one of them. and he is truely blessed. We live in different time where kids today learn differently. So please don't feel guillty you may even start some new family traditions. stay strong and don't give up. I admire parents of kids with disabilities because I watch my mom raise me. and I happy to say I grew up in a good house and went from a healthy disable child to a healthy disable woman!

madupers

on Oct 20, 2014

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Go out for breakfast close to the church so it won't be a big deal to stop by since everyone will be there, dressed and in a good mood after a nice meal together. If attending is too long for the first time, stop by the church but when there is no service. Sit with your family in a bench and just enjoy the quietness of the place, walk around, answer questions they might have... When you go back the next time it will not be a big deal and it will feel familiar to them. I miss it too when I can't go for a while but it feels like home when I go back.

AshleyVizz

on Dec 15, 2014

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Can say it's a great thing that's your wanting your children to go to Church as you did. In doing so values and morals there'll have the chance to pertain. I understand your view as well upon the issue of drama cause with in any church you can find that there. But I can tell you I wouldn't let that stop you in going. And the aspect of being shy.. given the going out of your comfort zone could be helpful in making you more open to engage with other's and activities. Believe in you all attending could really be something that draws your family together closer. (:

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