My two year old is notorious for getting into things and being a bit defiant. Today she decided to dump her bowl of dry Cheerios all over the floor. What put a smile on my face was when I said okay, come help me pick these up. She happily come over to me, bent down and said 'okay mommy, I help you'. She helped me get them all picked up and gave me a big hug afterwards. It melted my heart!