Go to new places. It’s Friday night, time to meet you friends at the bar and in the corner you see Tom, Dick, and Harry. You happen to know their names, because you see the same men, at the same bar every Friday. If you are meeting the girls at the bar to meet men why would you go to the same tired place already knowing what there is to choose from? Go to new places every week, this will increase your chances of meeting different people. Great spots where the men hang are steak houses and sports bars, now go get them.

Stop hanging out with a pack of girlfriends. If you constantly find yourself hanging out with only  a room full of women, how are you going to meet the love of your life ( unless of course women is your preferred sex). It is a known fact that men rarely approach a pack of women to get to the one he is interested in. Put yourself in his shoes for a minute: you see someone that you are attracted to who is sitting with about four other women, you walk over to say hi and introduce yourself, the woman clearly isn’t interested, and instead of being shot down by one woman the other four women at the table give you the “you are a loser” look.  Can you blame him for not taking the chance to come over to you? When you are at an event with friends, make sure you make yourself available for a man’s approach.