Stop the Mad "Makeover"

   By twistedsister1  Feb 04, 2008
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hen was the last time you went to a cosmetic counter within a specialty store (like Sephora) or department store (from Saks or Macy’s) to seek expert advice from the beauty advisor? Was your intention to create a “new you”, a total updated, cosmetic look, or just to window shop and see if a particular new shade of lipstick caught your eye?

Perhaps, inebriated by the possibilities of change or seduced by the tantalizing offers, this was your first flirtation with the makeup brush wielding, cosmetic maven at the store who most assuredly promised to create a whole different person, really a “new you”.

Regardless of how you came to sit in the chair and stare at yourself in that less than feature enhancing, fluorescent-lit mirror, you find yourself suddenly credit card slip in hand, lugging home hundreds of dollars of cosmetics. Then the sinking feeling slowly starts to permeate your gait. You know you will leave those bags untouched, unopened for days, as you grapple to overcome the “why did I do that & should I return it” syndrome. The symptoms are easy to recognize ? from buyer’s remorse to guilt to indifference - but the cause is less obvious. Simply put, you do not know how to begin to duplicate the beauty maven’s Edward Scissorhand approach to application, and even worse, are not sure that her vision of what you should look like is even right for you. You looked great when you left the store but creating this “new you” is now a blind date with your mirror.

Ladies, you have been the victim of the dreaded “makeover!” How do we know this? We are Tina Hedges and Beth Ann Catalano, co-presidents of twist and have over 40 years in developing, marketing and selling products that (we hope) you buy at cosmetic counters. And, of course, as beauty experts, we have a definite point of view on how to recover from this first date with lotions, potions, blushes, lipsticks, foundations and brushes as well as how to get the most information and service from your local beauty advisor.

reating any relationship takes effort. Creating a relationship with a beauty advisor is no different. Attraction, a good impression, chemistry, good eye contact, thoughtful questioning, and committing to see each other again is the beginning of a friendship. Perhaps, a single, casual, one nightstand is all the other party wanted and you feel taken advantage of when you open your Amex bill. In some cases, there is no other way to say it, you feel made-over, rolled-over, coifed, plucked, dusted, glazed and just plainly, wham, bam and thank you Ma’am-ed. And this feeling lingers, making you recoil slightly the next time you walk thru the aisles of the beauty department. Could this describe your feeling about the advisor at the beauty counter after your last “makeover?”

Beauty advisors are knowledgeable consultants. Connecting and finding the right fit is key. Posturing yourself with the right attitude will help you gain valuable service and information from a beauty professional. It is also necessary to become your own expert and develop the right relationship with yourself, so here are a few of our thoughts:



Remember, take control of your newfound expertise. No one is an expert, at first. If you have selected the right teacher, are committed to learning, and are open to discussing options, creating a relationship with someone that can help you look and feel more confident, sexier, and more beautiful is like, well, like finding the right love affair.

Uhmmmm, sounds like that French playboy both of us fought over the last trip to Nice?. But that’s a different lesson?.

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sashamichelle by sashamichelle | dewitt, MI
Aug 21, 2008

Douglas J Aveda Day Spa is a great place for a makeover!!

lillypad47 by lillypad47 | LANCASTER, SC
Aug 20, 2008

Great tips!!! Now, I will know all the Do's when shopping for cosmetics,etc. Being comfortable is what counts. The advise about NOT buying every product at once is one that MOST consultants should abide by when working with clients. Thanks a million!!

hmoney by hmoney | Macedon, NY
Aug 19, 2008

Thanks you so much for the much needed tips!!

cakegirlz by cakegirlz | Mason, TN
Aug 19, 2008

Now that was worth reading! I feel like I am ready to take on those "make up counters" now! Good article.

lromoff by lromoff | Los Angeles, CA
Aug 18, 2008

very informative!

edelgaizo by edelgaizo | Chapel Hill, NC
Aug 18, 2008

Thanks for the tips!

kinkihair by kinkihair | PHILADELPHIA, PA
Aug 16, 2008

I am very much into makeup and cosmetics in general. The makeup artist at the counters and stores I frequent regularly know me by name. As a result they don';t try to push products on me. They know I know what I want and like and will spend money of I have to, but if I'm broke or don't need it I keep my cash. In fact they treat me as an equal and have given me great tips about hard to find items.

headed2hollywood by headed2hollywood | Enola, PA
Aug 16, 2008

These are great tips! I hate going to the makeup counter for a new shade of foundation but coming out with bags full of items I didn't even want.

gondecktalley by gondecktalley | NORMAN, OK
Aug 15, 2008

Wow, great tips in this article. Thanks so much! I've always been a little intimidated by the counter women, but not anymore.

nomorerain3 by nomorerain3 | TONAWANDA, NY
Aug 15, 2008

Thank you for this advice. Although definatly NOT a professional I enjoy doing makeup on myself and for others. It is something that I have been pretty good at since before I even hit my teen years. I really enjoy how this article says that you should consider your trip to the makeup counter a "lesson". Even though I have had much practice I can always learn more. One thing that I have learned from this is to make sure that I start off slow in purchasing only a few items at a time. i tend to buy everything I can and then get home and realize that I have no idea what brush is for what. Thanks again for these helpful tips....I will keep them in mind!

pricilla by pricilla | daisytown, PA
Aug 14, 2008

Thanks for the tips, I have asthma and try to stay away from cosmetic counters but your tips really help. Pricilla

oodles4u by oodles4u | SANTA MONICA, CA
Aug 14, 2008

Great strategy!

lam0366 by lam0366 | HATBORO, PA
Aug 13, 2008

I like the natural look. I appreciate this article as it is informative!

evva99 by evva99 | Miami, FL
Aug 13, 2008

I agree! Thank you for this informative article. Women spend way too much on makeup and facial treatments. It is best to just get a couple of needed items and to love yourself for your natural beauty.

golden1z by golden1z | BORDENTOWN, NJ
Aug 13, 2008

Wow, what great advice that will be so helpful to me when I shop for my cosmetics.