Moms Come Together for Serena Williams. How's Your Mom Guilt? Tell Us to Win a $25 Gift Card
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Jul 12, 2018
Most working (and even non-working) parents know the disappointing feeling of missing one of their baby’s milestones. Whether it be their first word or first step, it can be hard to be present for these unpredictable moments. Tennis star and new mom Serena Williams recently joined the working parents’ club when she tweeted about missing 10-month-old daughter Alexis Olympia Ohanian Jr.’s first steps.
It seems that all moms have some guilt about something they did or didn't do. What's yours and how do you deal with it? Tell us below and you'll be entered to win a $25 Amazon gift card.
Today reports about Williams’ recent tweet and the large community of moms that came together to send the tennis champion an uplifting message about parenthood and what it means to be a working mom. Williams recently tweeted, “She took her first steps...I was training and missed it. I cried.” Instead of chastising the new mom, others on social media stood up to assure Williams that being a working parent can be complicated - but still very rewarding.
One user who related to Williams tweeted, “I missed a bunch of firsts while I was at work. I hear ya, mama. It’s not easy. But our girls see us out there grinding + living our dreams and that’s got to mean something. Good luck in London - my daughter and I are both rooting for you!” Another user told the story of how she even brought her baby with her to work and still missed that milestone. She tweets, “I took my 1st child all the way to Israel on a trade mission. During a meeting I heard cheering out in the waiting area .... Yup, staff and husband and assorted strangers saw her 1st steps. It all turns out okay. #Workingmomsrock”
And even stay-at-home moms know it’s not always possible to be there for every single new thing your baby does. One mom to twins tweets, “I'm a housewife and was in the next room and I missed it. With both of the twins. Please don't feel bad. Be happy for her and be ready for the running after her.” Hopefully, those loving messages helped to clear some of the mom-guilt Williams was probably feeling after missing her daughter’s first steps.
Do you have mom guilt? (What mom doesn't?!?) Comment below with your story - and you'll be entered to win a $25 Amazon gift card.
Don't forget to share any lessons you've learned that can help others feel better about their experiences in parenting.
*One lucky commenter will be chosen at random to receive a $25 Amazon gift card. Giveaway is open through July 29th, 2018 to U.S. residents at least 18 years of age. Entrants must be a member of SheSpeaks. If you are not a member, click here to join. Winner will be notified by email.
Update: Thanks to all who entered! Congrats to our winner, SheSpeaks member Modelc96.
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by kassieK222 | FERNLEY, NV
My son was at a conference for kids talented in special skills. He ended up performing a guitar solo at the talent show. We were unable to get there because the roads were icy. I still feel guilty because he is not the type to perform in public. Best advice is to try and let go of the mom guilt moments.
by LoMa1234 | FRANKLIN, MA
I feel mom guilt ALL the time. I feel bad that a lot of my sons toys are hand me downs instead of bought just for him. I feel bad that I look forward to nap time or bed time some nights.
by nickelet11 | ROSWELL, GA
I do not have kids.
by carrotrunr | Saint Louis Park, MN
I feel guilty about having to choose to attend one kid's concert versus another when they're scheduled for the same time. I know I can't be in 2 places at once, and the concerts were both videotaped, but I hate having to choose.
by jagerwench | LEXINGTON, SC
Feeling you you can't spend enough time with your child is a big concern.
by zekthezookeeper1967 | Kansas City, MO
My kids are in their 30's now, but I used to feel guilty about having to work when they were little. Now I know that I'm not guilty of anything though. You do the best you can, and it will all work out in the end.
by kjarch | COLUMBUS, MS
I had my oldest son when I was still in college so I put him in daycare just before he turned one so I could finish school. He started walking one day at daycare. It was hard missing such an important milestone but I had to sacrifice to finish my degree.
by beaniebaby70 | Mt PLeasant, TN
Not being able to breastfeed. My advice is to feed your baby, whatever that means for you
by lilang | NEWPORT, VA
My parents watched our son so he had them to play with and wear out all day and then hubby and I came home and it was our turn. Our son was always ahead of other kids physically and academically because he spent lots of time with adults plus we took him to parks, museums, VBS, etc. to mingle with other kids so I do not have any mommy guilt. I worked and he did not suffer in any way from that. He is 23 now and actually wants a wife one day who works so that they can have what we had for him.
by jolynn22 | MINNETONKA, MN
Working two jobs makes me constantly feel it. I can't help out at school as much as I would like.
by JPAL7573 | NASHVILLE, TN
my mom always told me that she had guilt about not being able to really take us out to big dinners when we were kids - she would have liked to have someone wait on us and make us feel special instead of always cooking on a budget at home. i know i will try to take her out when i can with the rest of my family
by katierysz | NEW BEDFORD, MA
I feel like I'm being lazy with potty training, and that I should have started earlier. She's now 3 1/2 and just does not care.
by ABAKER845 | CHESANING, MI
I always have Mom guilt, my dream is to stay home and always be there for them!!
by ashagner | DELPHOS, OH
my major guilt is not giving each of my children more individual time one on one
by couponsareme | RUMFORD, RI
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