Motherhood and Makeup: What's Your Take

   By daringfemale  Sep 03, 2009
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Motherhood has changed me in many ways, but one thing it’s certainly done is increase the dark circles under my eyes. I know, I know, it’s a small price to pay for the joy my daughter brings me, but I can’t say that I love the tired-exhausted look they give me in the morning. So after lots of trial-and-error I’ve found a great concealer that I love and I never leave the house without it.

In addition to the concealer, I usually put on some mascara and blush. If I’m really getting serious, I’ll put on the Laura Mercier tinted moisturizer, which makes my face look like I’ve been tanning in my back yard instead of staying up late catching up on work the night before. I might throw on some lipstick later in the day, but most of the time, that’s my entire makeup routine, which I think is pretty quick and light.

For me, putting on a little makeup in the morning is a good way to pick myself up and get ready for the day. If I look better, I feel better, period. So I find it surprising when I hear from other moms that since they’ve had kids they’ve stopped wearing makeup. Some say they don’t have the time, which I find hard to believe, but others simply say that they’ve stopped caring as much.

I think that’s really sad. Not the makeup part but the part of moms not investing time in themselves. Believe me, I know how hard this is. You know this manicure I was going to get a few weekends ago? Didn’t make it because it was a sunny day and I ended up playing with my daughter in the backyard instead. But I think we have to be reminded to not give up on ourselves as women after we become moms, to remember that it’s important to feel good and take care of ourselves, whether it means putting on a little concealer, getting to the gym, or taking an afternoon off.

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Misskarlea by Misskarlea | Yorba Linda, CA
Sep 09, 2009

I feel like If I don't wear make up, I look tired and then I feel like I'm just not as confidant in my day!! There are days I love to be all natural but as a mom I feel like if you put time into yourself you feel better about every thing you do!

Mjanae20 by Mjanae20 | WHITNEY, TX
Sep 08, 2009

I wear makeup everyday, even when I am not going anywhere. It makes me feel better.

ladyjay by ladyjay | Belleville, IL
Sep 07, 2009

I am in a 18 year slump that I can't seem to get myself out of. Over weight ( extremely ) and just a big old slumpa-dinka. I am going to try this. I use to wear makeup all the time and I loved it. After the birth of my son I stopped. I went through a separation with my ex at a time when I really needed support and well it was just crazy. Now I'm ready to start a new and this is where I'm starting.

jami78 by jami78 | RACINE, WI
Sep 06, 2009

I don't normally wear makeup. I wore a lot in high school, then I joined the US Army and went through Basic Training, where for almost 2 months I was not allowed to wear makeup. I got in the habit of not wearing it, then I got back into the habit of wearing it, then I got pregnant with my daughter a few years later and was in nursing school at the same time. I got to the point where I just didn't have time nor did I feel like putting it on. I've always been told that I am a "naturally pretty" woman who doesn't need it. I feel good enough about myself that I can go out in public and not have to cover my face up. When I do feel like wearing it, my daughter who is almost 8 yrs. old asks me "Where are you going, Mommy?" lol. Then she tells me, "Oh you look pretty, Mommy. Can I wear some?" lol.

baybay11 by baybay11 | Norman, OK
Sep 06, 2009

I definitely agree! As a mom of four, often working from home, it's soooo easy to not "bother" with the makeup, but man, the difference in the way I feel, just putting on a little bit... it's a huge confidence booster, reminding me that I can still be, "an attractive woman", even though my most important job will always be Mom!

lnlygrl96 by lnlygrl96 | HAYWARD, CA
Sep 06, 2009

I try to put make up as many days as I can. I have 2 babies under 2 and a teenage girl. SOOOO much fun...so it does get hard to even do anything!! I agree with EmilysMomBecky, it just doesn't look right.....I guess i'm not use to it anymore. I use to also always wear make up and now those days are gone.

EmilysMomBecky by EmilysMomBecky | CLARKSVILLE, TN
Sep 06, 2009

I am a stay at home mom to 5 kids. It has been so long since I have really tried to wear makeup that when I do put some on I feel that it doesn't look or feel right. I remember I used to love to wear makeup but now it seems I just have time to get every one on the bus that go to school and keep up with my little ones at home.

dlhlrh1 by dlhlrh1 | BOSTIC, NC
Sep 06, 2009

I love to wear makeup. I feel so much better when I take the time to put my makeup on. There are times on the week end or the summer when I am tanned that I don't, but usually I have my makeup on. I am proud of my family we work hard and play hard together so looking your best is a good thing.

lmedcalf by lmedcalf | Atlanta, GA
Sep 06, 2009

I think wearing makeup has become a societal expectation. We don't look like what we really look like any more. Break free! I do all weekend every weekend. While I may not be comfortable during the week at work, I take every opportunity to let my skin breathe and save time from making up my face. I shop, I go to lunch, I even go out to eat in the evenings. It's liberating, and luckily, my husband tells me I'm beautiful and he prefers me this way!

Trynewthings by Trynewthings | Danville, PA
Sep 06, 2009

A Mother to be is beautiful with or without makeup. We have a glow that comes naturally. As for wearing makeup when expecting, why not. It just enhances our beauty.

MrsMichelle by MrsMichelle | Barrington, IL
Sep 05, 2009

I have phases in my life where I wear makeup and where I don't... or where I just do a little or whathaveyou. I've definitely found that in general, when I take the effort to take care of myself -- including putting on makeup -- I'm happier and more productive. And that counts for a lot when you're a busy mom. But ummm yeah there are definitely days that I don't manage to get any makeup on. And those are the days my energy just isn't there. Then again -- how much of it is chicken and egg, I wonder

marylynn76 by marylynn76 | Millington, TN
Sep 05, 2009

I agree with you about putting makeup on every morning can make a difference in the way you feel. I began being a stay-at-home mom in 2006 and started out not caring if I put on makeup and noticed a difference about how I felt in the early morning. I was sluggish and it seemed like my dark circles took over. I ahve been looking for a great concealer to cover them up and will try the one you suggested.

countrycouponclipper by countrycouponclipper | Supply, NC
Sep 05, 2009

I feel better when I put on make up even if its just a little mascara, blush and lip gloss I believe when you look better you feel better, Im a mom of two boys and when I get my makeup they tell me momma you look beautiful and I love it

VBARRERA by VBARRERA | LA PUENTE, CA
Sep 05, 2009

Im a working mother of twins and I have to say they changed my life, I dont worry much about my self. Normally I put my hair in a bun and wear little mascara. My husband hates it and he will say, Man what happend to the sexy Veronica I met years ago, and normally I respond , im a mom now and my kids come first. When we have our night out yes I dress up and he loves it.

Dare2BDifferent by Dare2BDifferent | Port Tobacco, MD
Sep 04, 2009

I totally agree, Nataly. I wear makeup every day. I do it for me. I also feel better if I believe I look better. Also, it's rather nice every morning to hear my daughters tell me that I look beautiful. And my husband really takes notice. I never wear the same "look" twice for my makeup. I experiment with color daily. I used to almost never wear makeup, even before I became a mother. I just didn't want to put in the time or effort. I found some great tutorials on makeup application on Youtube about 2 months ago, and ever since I've been a daily wearer. Honestly, I didn't know how to do my makeup prior to finding those tutorials.