My 8-year old son was diagnosed with dyslexia a few months ago. He doesn't like to talk about it and he doesn't tell anyone else he has it. So I don't usually either. However, it's Dyslexia Awareness Month and I believe that the more who know about it, the more kids we can help. Plus, I tell my son all the time how proud I am of him, and I hope that one day he'll be proud of all that he is too.
My son makes friends everywhere he goes. He is kind and generous to everyone he meets. His smile is contagious. He also happens to have dyslexia.
We suspected that there was something going on a few years ago. It was more than that he was having trouble reading. It's that he tried so hard and still struggled. Despite any improvements he was making, he was still falling farther and farther behind. Even when we gave him all the tools to learn, his brain just couldn’t put it together.
The diagnosis was actually a relief. No one’s happy to be told that their child has a learning disability. It broke my heart to hear someone tell me there was something wrong. However, seeing the tears in my son’s eyes while he tried to sound out words and sentences was already breaking my heart. This diagnosis would finally get him the help he needed to set him on a path to success.
In the last few months, I’ve tried to educate myself on dyslexia, and have found there are so many misconceptions about it. Some people think dyslexia means you just write letters backward; or that kids with dyslexia have low intelligence, have problems with vision, or just don’t try hard enough. But I’ve learned that none of those are right.
Dyslexia means that my son’s brain processes information differently than most people. He has to work extra hard to do what comes naturally to others, especially reading, writing and spelling. Using specific evidence-based reading programs, he can learn strategies on how to overcome many of the challenges, but he will never completely outgrow it. Dyslexia can vary to different degrees, but experts say that between 5-20% of the population has some form of it.
Because of how the brain works, many people with dyslexia tend to have incredible strengths too. My son is both innovative and resourceful - he can spend hours with cardboard and a roll of tape and turn it into something unique. In fact, some of the most famous storytellers, entrepreneurs, inventors and out-of-the-box thinkers even credit dyslexia for helping make them successful. People like Steven Spielberg, Richard Branson, Octavia Spencer, and Jamie Oliver are all dyslexic. Many believe that some of the world’s biggest game-changers had it too, including: Thomas Edison, Henry Ford, Walt Disney, Pablo Picasso, and possibly even Albert Einstein.
You can find more info about dyslexia and other learning challenges on Understood.org. I highly recommend trying the simulations to see what it’s like for kids who have reading, attention, or other issues. Check them out here.
My Daughter makes me proud every day, she has become a very hard-working compassionate person!
My son witg special needs just keeps on trying until he finally gets something. School has been a struggle, but he keeps trucking along and making huge progress. So proud of him!
My daughters friend Becka has dyslexia. She will be finishing college soon. I am so proud of her accomplishments despite challenges from dyslexia. I help her whenever I can.
My husband, because he works so hard to take care of us and so that I can stay home.
My twin boys make me proud because they have ADHD and try SO hard every single day - they have overcome obstacles academically and are now in the Gifted Talented program at school!
My husband makes me proud. He's such a good father to my children!
I am so proud of my kids for being hard workers!
My beautiful 24-year old grandson became a tetraplegic after a horrific football accident his last year of high school. He spent his senior year in hospitals and rehabs. He is now attaining his Masters Degree in I/O Psychology and I am so very, very proud of him.
My mom is so caring and generous, it makes me so proud to be her daughter.
I am so proud of my daughter. All of her life she has struggled with anxiety and social phobia, however, she faces her fears head on and is always the first to make friends with the kid/adult who others seem to turn away from. She is very caring and empathetic. She is now studying to be a vet tech and is doing an awesome job!
My husband makes me proud especially to be his wife and my son's father. He works hard and takes care of his family without complaint. He always puts us first and let's us know how much he loves us.