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5 Things NOT to Do At a Party. Plus Enter to Win an Amazon Echo (valued at $179.99)!

SheSpeaksTeam By SheSpeaksTeam 06.08.16
5 Things NOT to Do At a Party. Plus Enter to Win an Amazon Echo (valued at $179.99)!
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From BBQs to formal affairs, summer is always busy with lots of parties, so it's important to be ready. Luckily, we have party advice ready for you, courtesy of SheSpeaks members who taught us what NOT to do - through examples of the crazy wedding mishaps they experienced.

Read on to learn from the hilarious experiences of others and be prepared before you go to your next party - whatever type of party it may be!

Plus, we’re giving away the hottest gadget of the summer: an Amazon Echo (valued at $179.99), the in-home speaker system you can ask everything from “Alexa, how do I get cake stains out of a silk dress?” to “Alexa, where can I get a last-minute babysitter?"

Top 5 Things NOT to Do At a Party…

1. Do NOT wear clothes that are too big or too small!

Before you leave the house, make sure your clothing fits properly. No one wants a wardrobe malfunction, especially not what SheSpeaks member Jsthornhill3 experienced…

“I decided to switch wedding dresses at the last minute and didn't have time to get it altered. It was a bit too long but I thought it would be fine when I added my shoes. WRONG! I was walking and got caught up in the dress and tripped. When I fell it ripped my dress at the waistline. I was so embarrassed standing there with part of a dress on. I guess it is a good thing I had pretty under garments on.”

2. Do NOT forget to accessorize!

For party prep, you often focus on getting the jewelry and make-up perfect. But also think about less typical accessories like suntan lotion and bug spray. Sounds like winchamp wished she had done just that…

“ one word that sums up what I witnessed at a friend's wedding. Mosquitos were everywhere. They decided to have an outdoor wedding in the heat of the summer. It was hot and humid and the guests were like candy for the mosquitos. Bug candles were glowing and the wedding party seemed to be glowing even more with red bites.”

3. Do NOT forget the names of the host and hostess!

It’s tough to remember all of the people you meet, but you should know who is throwing the party. According to justme0419, definitely learn the groom’s name, especially if you are the bride…

“Okay, craziest wedding mishap would have to go to my friend who I'll leave anonymous for her pride’s sake. Lol. When it came time to read her vows, she started her off with a heartfelt "Kevin...." not her groom's name. Not. Even. Close.”

4. Do NOT expect children to be quiet!

It’s common for bored or unhappy children to get antsy and make a scene. So make sure to come with toys, snacks and a pacifier so that they won't make themselves heard at moments when silence is preferred, as sammosam witnessed…

 “As the minister said..."speak now or forever hold your peace"...the church went silent...except for the high-pitched & everlasting SCREAM of a toddler in attendance. Lol. That shriek echoed off the walls and everyone erupted in laughter!”

5. Do NOT skimp on dessert!

Everyone knows that dessert is the best part of any meal. So make sure you are prepared with extra in case any unfortunate accidents happen to the cake, as was the case with both GeekySweetie and lauraB24

“I attended a wedding reception once in a rustic barn setting (those seem popular these days) - but this one was perhaps a bit more rustic than most - It began to rain outside, and part of the roof caved in and landed right on the cake!”

“We didn't have a wedding ceremony. We had a small outdoor lunch in the great smoky mountains. A bird flew into our cake. It literally flew straight through it.”

Not that you’ve learned tips about what NOT to do at a party, we want to know what you should do. What is your best party tip? Tell us and you could win an Amazon Echo (valued at $179.99)!

There are two ways to enter:

Simply comment below and tell us something you always do (or do NOT do) at parties.


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Click here to Tweet: "I entered the @SheSpeaksUp #PartyTips giveaway to win an Amazon Echo!

*One lucky commenter or Tweeter will be chosen at random to receive an Amazon Echo, valued at $179.99. Giveaway is open through June 19th, 2016 to U.S. residents at least 18 years of age. Entrants must be a member of SheSpeaks. If you are not a member, click here to join. Winner will be notified by email.

Update: Thanks to all for entering! Congratulations to our winner: SheSpeaks member Angela811.

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  • kneekollt By kneekollt

    I always make sure that there is food for everyone no matter what they eat or don't eat. I want everyone to feel like I will accommodate their needs.

  • taletreader By taletreader

    Just a cosmetic DO, but always make sure to bring oil blotting sheets in your purse!

  • AndryaAndroid By AndryaAndroid

    Don't be absorbed in your phone the whole time. Nobody wants to remember you as the person constantly looking down, face lit up from phone glow. Don't be that guy.

  • Maritza2387 By Maritza2387

    I don't get drunk at parties because I want to have a good time and remember what happened at the party & enjoy being with friends & making new ones.

  • Bulldog0325 By Bulldog0325

    When hosting or attending a party, I always make sure I have enough food for everyone including specific children's dishes. I also make sure that I have the correct adult and childrens' beverages there as well. When I host at my home, I always buy someone's particular wine or beer that I know they like. As well as having a couple different childrens' juices, or teas and milk there as well. I always have plenty of bottled water for every guest as well. Since I've written & published my first cookbook, I love to make dishes from that & let everyone know what they are. I also like to label my dishes with cute little notecards so people know which dish is what. Enjoy your parties!!

  • TheMrsTee By TheMrsTee

    Do not go to a party on a completely empty stomach! Yes, you're there for dinner BUT you never know how long it will be before it's served. You don't want your stomach growling to get more attention than you do!

  • EnticingHealthyEating By EnticingHealthyEating

    I always make sure to respect others at parties.

  • MsGABlue By MsGABlue

    Always wear comfortable shoes in case there is limited seating.

  • Lule1988 By Lule1988

    1. Don't try and hit on a woman or man who is taken already and you know it. 2. Don't get drunk and loud 3. Don't start a fight have some respect 4. No intercourse in the bathroom etc. 5. Don't talk about your ex the whole one wants to hear about it. Thanks for opportunity

  • animalgal By animalgal

    Don't drink a lot of "juice" as the housewives say!!

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