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Has Social Media Changed Pregnancy? Compare Notes & Enter Our @SheSpeaksUp #MothersDay Giveaway!

Has Social Media Changed Pregnancy? Compare Notes & Enter Our @SheSpeaksUp #MothersDay Giveaway!

When we found out that our SheSpeaks staffer Emily is pregnant and due in September, we just had to compare stories, grilling her about all the new ways social media has impacted the experience. Turns out that pregnancy itself has not changed since the dawn of civilization, but the way we handle it sure has: Gender-Reveal Parties! Birth Announcements on Facebook! Pregnancy Tracking Apps! We needed to know more...

Read on to celebrate the fun that is pregnancy, and enter to win a $100 gift card to so you can treat yourself this Mother's Day!

How did you announce that you were pregnant?

  • Emily: I told close friends/family on the phone or in person early in my pregnancy, then after the first trimester posted a cartoon my husband drew on Facebook.

  • Aliza (mom to 10 year-old Cayla and 8 year-old Zoe): For our family and close friends, we emailed a photo of the sonogram with the subject line, "Our delivery is on its way." Yes, we thought we were very clever and yes, it was sent via email. Only college kids were on Facebook at the beginning of my first pregnancy!

What’s with the gender-reveal parties? Are showers now considered passé?

  • Emily: Everyone wants to hear about the gender! I have been asked a lot if I'm having a girl or boy and we haven't been able to tell via ultrasound yet.  We're having gender-neutral baby showers with my family and my in-laws and the showers will be co-ed!
  • Carol (mom to 16 year-old Charlie & 12 year-old Melissa): We chose not to find out the gender of either of our babies until they were born. I love surprises! But my co-workers threw me a coed shower where they each filled out a questionnaire guessing the baby's arrival date, weight, name, college and career. They put all these in an album with photos. I still have it although the "baby" is now 16!

With all the internet resources available, are you even shopping in-store? And how are you deciding what to buy?

  • Emily: I’ve been relying heavily on Amazon reviews, and some product round-ups from bloggers I like. We set up an Amazon registry and have been slowly adding to it, but plan to go in-store to do some research in-person to help us decide what to buy, then will add more to the Amazon registry.
  • Susan (mom to 9 year-old Samuel & 5 year-old Alex): When I was first pregnant ten years ago, everyone I knew had the book ‘Baby Bargains’. I brought the book to Babies R' Us when I went to make my registry there. We picked whatever items that Baby Bargains recommended and Babies R' Us sold.

What research are you doing to learn about pregnancy and the new baby?

  • Emily: I use the Ovia app which I use to track symptoms and weight gain. I've also enjoyed the podcasts "The Longest Shortest Time" and "Pregnancy Confidential." Books: What to Expect When You're Expecting, What to Expect the First Year, Expecting Better, The Happiest Baby on the Block (and many more to come, I'm sure!)
  • Susan: Glad to see books are still being used, especially What to Expect When You're Expecting!
  • Melissa (mom to 7 month-old Cameron): I downloaded the What to Expect App which tracks your pregnancy week by week, giving you updates on size, weight, development, and symptoms. I couldn't wait to read what was happening each week. But for the not-so-technical side of it, I found the best and most honest advice always came from other moms (and still does!)

Happy Mother's Day from the SheSpeaks Team!

Whether you are a new mom, an experienced mom or not a mom at all... what is your best piece of advice to give to Emily and all the other soon-to-be moms out there? Tell us for a chance to win a $100 gift card to so you can treat yourself this Mother's Day!

There are two ways to enter:

Simply comment below with advice for a future mom.


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*One lucky commenter or Tweeter will be chosen at random to receive a $100 gift card. Giveaway is open through May 8th, 2016 to U.S. residents at least 18 years of age. Entrants must be a member of SheSpeaks. If you are not a member, click here to join. Winner will be notified by email.

Update: The winner is SheSpeaks member Eureka00! Thanks to all for entering and congrats to her!

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  • JamericanSpice By JamericanSpice


  • samgray2005 By samgray2005

    I have never been pregnant- but I am a mom of a rambunctious fur baby! I also care for my handicapped and older hubby. Between the 2 and working 55 hours a week I'm exhausted!

  • authorkayglass By authorkayglass

    Remember to take care of you, too! I have 3 children, and I'm terrible at taking my own advice. I don't ask for help very often, and admit, I feel guilty when I need help, like I should be able to do it all. But you need YOU time as well, even if it's just taking 10 minutes to shower, or 5 to paint your toenails. Stay awake a half hour longer than everyone else in the house and spend it reading, relaxing, playing video games, whatever you need. Just remember to recharge yourself to be the best you can be.

  • leylers By leylers

    I am currently 7 months pregnant - at age 40 - with our 2nd child, our son is 16. My advice - enjoy every minute - even the tough parts - it goes by so quickly and they grow up so fast. Take time to stop and just let things be - don't try to make them walk or talk early - don't try to speed milestones up. They get there before you know it, let them be babies and enjoy it - you'll miss it when it's gone.

  • sltate By sltate

    Everyone has an opinion and experience. Do what is best for you and your family and follow your instincts!

  • sashabby By sashabby

    Well, I am an older mom with children, 1 grown up, 2 teenagers and 1 almost teen :D My advice for a future mom/young mom is: ENJOY!! Time for raising children seems forever but really too short!!!!! So, try NOT TO stressed out and enjoy :)

  • alicedorow By alicedorow

    I don't miss the aching back and all the rest that goes with being pregnant. lol. Hopefully I win!!

  • KaylaL By KaylaL

    It gets better. All of it. It just gets better, so hang in there. The 2am (and 4am and 6am) feedings will pass, you will sleep again, and you will miss those quiet moments in the dark with the baby God has so graciously given you. -

  • Eureka00 By Eureka00

    My advice to a future mom would be to not use too much anti-bacterial stuff and worry about germs all the time! Your kids need to be around some germs to build an immunity to them. My parents never obsessed about germs, and I grew up with no allergies and I never get the flu (despite never getting flu shots either).

  • rubydreamer By rubydreamer

    Enjoy every minute of every day, take time to smell the roses along the way. We get so caught up with life, we don't take the time to enjoy the experience. Time does go so fast.

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