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Has Social Media Changed Pregnancy? Compare Notes & Enter Our @SheSpeaksUp #MothersDay Giveaway!

Has Social Media Changed Pregnancy? Compare Notes & Enter Our @SheSpeaksUp #MothersDay Giveaway!

When we found out that our SheSpeaks staffer Emily is pregnant and due in September, we just had to compare stories, grilling her about all the new ways social media has impacted the experience. Turns out that pregnancy itself has not changed since the dawn of civilization, but the way we handle it sure has: Gender-Reveal Parties! Birth Announcements on Facebook! Pregnancy Tracking Apps! We needed to know more...

Read on to celebrate the fun that is pregnancy, and enter to win a $100 gift card to so you can treat yourself this Mother's Day!

How did you announce that you were pregnant?

  • Emily: I told close friends/family on the phone or in person early in my pregnancy, then after the first trimester posted a cartoon my husband drew on Facebook.

  • Aliza (mom to 10 year-old Cayla and 8 year-old Zoe): For our family and close friends, we emailed a photo of the sonogram with the subject line, "Our delivery is on its way." Yes, we thought we were very clever and yes, it was sent via email. Only college kids were on Facebook at the beginning of my first pregnancy!

What’s with the gender-reveal parties? Are showers now considered passé?

  • Emily: Everyone wants to hear about the gender! I have been asked a lot if I'm having a girl or boy and we haven't been able to tell via ultrasound yet.  We're having gender-neutral baby showers with my family and my in-laws and the showers will be co-ed!
  • Carol (mom to 16 year-old Charlie & 12 year-old Melissa): We chose not to find out the gender of either of our babies until they were born. I love surprises! But my co-workers threw me a coed shower where they each filled out a questionnaire guessing the baby's arrival date, weight, name, college and career. They put all these in an album with photos. I still have it although the "baby" is now 16!

With all the internet resources available, are you even shopping in-store? And how are you deciding what to buy?

  • Emily: I’ve been relying heavily on Amazon reviews, and some product round-ups from bloggers I like. We set up an Amazon registry and have been slowly adding to it, but plan to go in-store to do some research in-person to help us decide what to buy, then will add more to the Amazon registry.
  • Susan (mom to 9 year-old Samuel & 5 year-old Alex): When I was first pregnant ten years ago, everyone I knew had the book ‘Baby Bargains’. I brought the book to Babies R' Us when I went to make my registry there. We picked whatever items that Baby Bargains recommended and Babies R' Us sold.

What research are you doing to learn about pregnancy and the new baby?

  • Emily: I use the Ovia app which I use to track symptoms and weight gain. I've also enjoyed the podcasts "The Longest Shortest Time" and "Pregnancy Confidential." Books: What to Expect When You're Expecting, What to Expect the First Year, Expecting Better, The Happiest Baby on the Block (and many more to come, I'm sure!)
  • Susan: Glad to see books are still being used, especially What to Expect When You're Expecting!
  • Melissa (mom to 7 month-old Cameron): I downloaded the What to Expect App which tracks your pregnancy week by week, giving you updates on size, weight, development, and symptoms. I couldn't wait to read what was happening each week. But for the not-so-technical side of it, I found the best and most honest advice always came from other moms (and still does!)

Happy Mother's Day from the SheSpeaks Team!

Whether you are a new mom, an experienced mom or not a mom at all... what is your best piece of advice to give to Emily and all the other soon-to-be moms out there? Tell us for a chance to win a $100 gift card to so you can treat yourself this Mother's Day!

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*One lucky commenter or Tweeter will be chosen at random to receive a $100 gift card. Giveaway is open through May 8th, 2016 to U.S. residents at least 18 years of age. Entrants must be a member of SheSpeaks. If you are not a member, click here to join. Winner will be notified by email.

Update: The winner is SheSpeaks member Eureka00! Thanks to all for entering and congrats to her!

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  • ThatGrrlTina By ThatGrrlTina

    My advice is to not listen to people who tell you how to raise your child. I know that is hard because literally EVERYONE you know (or even randoms you come in contact with) has an opinion, but remember at the end of the day it is YOUR child and it is YOUR choice how you care for them.

  • candyland0606 By candyland0606

    Register all your baby gear with the manufacturer so you'll be informed if there are recalls.

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  • marajen By marajen

    Do not share the name of the baby until he or she are officially named on the birth certificate. People will give you their opinion and try to convince you to change it. Baby Center community groups and birth clubs are great - having a new baby can be very isolating; it's nice to chat with other moms who are up at 2am. My baby was born at 30 weeks, and the preemie parenting group was really helpful. Love the Eat Sleep app for tracking eating, sleeping and diapers. Who knew that you track how well the baby is eating by the # of diapers a day? The Cozi app is great for keeping dr visits and family schedules straight. Also reading Here's the Plan by Allyson Downey. Good read for understanding maternity leave - the legal and practical. Last, if your baby has reflux, you need a rock n play sleeper. It angles the baby so that reflux happens less.

  • cmrose By cmrose

    Hold your baby as MUCH as possible!!

  • annrone By annrone

    Get lots of sleep and have help from others.

  • BeautyByGabrielle By BeautyByGabrielle

    Always remember a baby is the greatest gift and savor every moment because they fly by before you know it

  • kikiL1771 By kikiL1771

    Don't listen to all the horror stories, or what everyone says will happen. My 'baby" is 23 years old now, and when I had him everyone had their stories and was telling me all the horrible things that were going to happen.. and had I listened to them I'd have been terrified.

  • trecib By trecib

    I posted a picture from my ultrasound on fb

  • JamericanSpice By JamericanSpice

    For a new mom: Don't worry about the cute clothes. Ask for diapers and wipes in every size!

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