Saying "I Love You"

By YolandaShoshana Aug 31, 2011

When was the last time you said the three magic words, “I love you”? I do not mean in an email, a text or in passing. When was the last time you said those words with intent and feeling.

Since we have become a digital world, we may be missing going opportunities to say or show someone just how much we care. How can we get back that warm fuzzy feeling by incorporating those words more into our relationships? Saying those three little words can be magic for your relationship.

It is difficult for some people to say I love you due to their perspective of the words or how they grew up. Then there are people who throw the words around very easily to the degree that they “love everyone’. Some people love being in love, we all know someone like that. In fact, that person could be you. If you really want “I love you” to take meaning between you and your partner, remember to say the words with intent and meaning. Look into their eyes when you say it. Pick up the phone and say it verbally instead of putting it in a text. Not only is it thoughtful but it slows you down to physically feel love as you say it. It is a win win situation for the both of you.

Besides saying those lovely words, show it. My mother always taught me that action speaks louder than words. You can also do something that shows love versus saying it if the words are hard for you to say. Pay attention to your partners desires and give them what they crave. It is how you keep love brewing between the two of you, plus it does wonders for keeping it hot in the boudoir.

Make saying “I love you” a part of your relationship every day.