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Do Men Lie More?
Posted May 19, 2010

The next time you feel like a man is lying to you, you may want to remember the following statistics.  A new poll coming out of the U.K.'s Science Museum reveals that men tell lies more often than women.  On top of telling lies more frequently, the survey shows that men suffer less guilt from lying as well.

A recent article frommagazine discusses the results of the survey.  According to the poll, men tell an average of 3 lies a day and women lie about twice a day.  When you look at the numbers over a longer period of time you'll see men appear to be much bigger liars than women, telling 1,092 lies a year to a woman's 728. 

Unfortunately for us, it is the moms that are lied to the most.  Both men and women admit that they lie to their mothers more than anyone else in their lives.  Interestingly, only 10 percent of people say they lie to their spouses.  Most women (82 percent) report a feeling of guilt after telling a fib while only 70 percent of men say they suffer any guilt.

So what are all of these men lying about?  One of the top lies men tell others is that they did not have a lot of alcohol to drink.  Some other lines that made the top ten are "Nothing's wrong, I'm fine", "I'm on my way", and "You've lost weight."  Some of the top things women lie about are "Nothing's wrong, I'm fine" and "It wasn't that expensive." 

What do you think of the new poll revealing that men lie more often than women?

Do you agree with these findings?

31 Comments
llogan94 says: on May 19, 2010
IF this is true and then that is why they have to deal with "scorn of a woman."
BeckyJane says: on May 19, 2010
I truly find it hard to believe that men lie more than women, however, the lack of morality in the countries today can make it true. Men travel more than women, they proably lie to their clients, business partners, wives, girlfriends, even their pastors if they go to church.
Orchid25 says: on May 19, 2010
I think it just seems like they lie more because they aren't good liars, you can tell when men lie.. either by the stupid little smirk on their face or how they can't keep the lie covered up very long.
msfriendly says: on May 19, 2010
Yes, but I want to know...are they good liars....I think not!
marti3276 says: on May 19, 2010
I can tell, usually, when a man is lying. It is harder with a woman. But I also can usually tell when my teen is lying.
oceanairy says: on May 19, 2010
It is a shame that anyone should feel that they would have to lie to their significant other!!! I can't lie to my husband b/c I smile from ear to ear!! We could be in a big fight and he asks me something and I giggle b/c I just cant lie to him! I wish we were all like that.
oceangirl1 says: on May 19, 2010
There is an old saying once a liar always a liar !
gina35 says: on May 20, 2010
My husband is not a very good liar,I can always tell when he lies, I just never say anything because he always tells on himself. He told me one of his friend installed his car stereo, two weeks later we went for a drive and passed this car stereo shop he told me, that is where I got my car stereo installed. I gave him that look and he just droped his head. He knew he had been caught.
shaghk says: on May 20, 2010
Chris Rock said it best. "Men tell the most lies, women tell the biggest lies."
mommaduck says: on May 20, 2010
interesting, i know my husband has to fib all the times. he works at a middle school and well you know kids, they dont want to tell the truth. My husband i feel is very honest so i would not say he lies to me at all. or at least i hope he doesnt
Alickina says: on May 20, 2010
If they are going to include things like "nothing is wrong, I am fine" then it does not suprise me that men come out ahead in the lies. Men do not talk about their feelings as much as women do. These are really avoidence techniques, not lies expected to be believed, which also explains the lower feelings of guilt.
Carrie_Mustin says: on May 20, 2010
I believe men lie more. My husband lied to me about two secret wives, three children and five grandchildren I didn't know about for 7 years of our marriage. Now tell me that men aren't good liars and feel no guilt.
lbrasfieldc says: on May 20, 2010
I happen to believe men lie just about as much as women do. In todays society with the morals that people seem to have; seems like everyone believes it is alright to lie; regardless the reason to be telling the lie. The world and its morality today is in a sad place.
LuckyMommaJ says: on May 21, 2010
Hmmmmm ...that is interesting because my husband is the exact opposite. I am a believer in telling "white lies" like "we can't come to dinner, the kids haven't been feeling well" to avoid hurting feelings, instead of "we can't come to dinner, you bore us and your kids are monsters." My husband doesn't believe in white lies. He instead will say the latter.
patti6678 says: on May 21, 2010
I believe that men do indeed lie more however i do think a lot of women lie about much more serious things. women are just more emotional and jealous and a lot want what the next woman has so they will lie and scheme and do whatever they have to to try and get it.
Gin257 says: on May 21, 2010
Haha of course men lie to us. They get scared! :)
mardel says: on May 21, 2010
Of course they lie more because they think they are smarter than women! They may be good lairs but women are better detectives!
shoemaker616 says: on May 21, 2010
I can always tell when my husband and even my children are lying. I am pretty perceptive and my husband is a terrible liar!!!!
SMUDD85 says: on May 21, 2010
Definately would agreee that lie more. They are less emotional overall than women so it makes them a little harder to read thus, leading to them getting away with lying a little more.
mmcriswell says: on May 21, 2010
I so agree. Men to tell more lies than women and they even do stupid stuff to cover the lies they have already told.
firewife04 says: on May 22, 2010
I find it hard to believe studies that are conducted on topics such as lying because people may lie about the amount of lies they actually tell. They may minimize how much they actually lie. I believe women tell more white lies than men because we ask more questions of each other such as how do I look, how's my hair, etc.
MadHatter says: on May 24, 2010
i say its about even. though mmcriswell & shaghk basically hit it on the nail with what i think...
julecoc says: on May 24, 2010
I don't know if I would trust the results of surveys because people can lie on them!! It might be that women lie more- so they cover it up on surveys ;) but I will say my momma was the one I lied to the most out of everyone in my life, and my spouse I lied to the least so that much of correct.
je445709 says: on May 24, 2010
I think that it is based off of the person but in general I think men do lie more
centrej says: on May 25, 2010
I think men lie to get what they want (like sex) instead of thinking what the consequences will be. Men will lie about anything, especially if they know their wives will get mad about it. Nowadays, american culture shows that it's ok to cheat, lie, steal, and be a jerk because you can be the next reality star, while women will be naked to get some kind of attention. There doesn't seem to be any guilt or lack of respect for liars. Look at the White House crashers, they lied, and they are still getting attention and possibility a TV show.
hippychick says: on May 25, 2010
My mom always said there isn't one man alive that won't lie or cheat on you if they think they can get away with it. I beleived her.
momagarry says: on May 25, 2010
I think men lie more because they are always hiding something.
spanky010281 says: on May 25, 2010
women lie just as much as men
Sotheary says: on Jun 01, 2010
Think it depends on the person.
camroth says: on Jun 06, 2010
There is no doubt me lie more than woman. The funny thing is a lot of them are lousy liars!
Itty_Bitty says: on Jul 14, 2010
I was actually surpried that men lie more than women. Think about it, they really don't care about the feelings of others, so why lie? Thats why they have less guilt tho Actually the fact that mothers are lied to the most, is heartbreaking, I have 6 children lol
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