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Tiger Woods Says Goodbye To Privacy
Posted December 8, 2009

We’ve all heard the news and witnessed the number of women on the list of Tiger Woods’ alleged extramarital affairs growing daily.  Whether you seek out the reports or just happen to hear about them on the evening news, it seems they are everywhere.  The extent of the Woods coverage is leaving many to question whether all of this should be such a public matter. 

Even if you have no interest in golf, you are probably well aware of who Tiger Woods is and most of us know how he prefers to keep his life, outside the sport, very private.  All of this changed recently when Woods was involved in a car accident just outside his home.  After the accident, reports started surfacing about a domestic disturbance with his wife that may have led up to the accident and the alleged affairs that fueled the disturbance. 

With each day since the accident it seems a new woman declares publicly that she too had an affair with Woods.  The latest count of women making this claim is ten.  A recent articles from Forbes discusses whether or not Woods’ family matters should be kept private.  A poll from The Sharkey Institute for Seton Hall University found that 78 percent of responders thought that details about the car accident and the alleged fight with Woods’ wife should have been kept private.

Tiger Woods himself has responded to all the press surrounding him and his family when he said, "Personal sins should not require press releases and problems within a family shouldn’t have to mean public confessions."  Forbes points out how this statement is ironically presented in the form of a press release and a public confession.  This is reminiscent of the way the women who host ABC’s The View recently agreed on air that Tiger Woods’ family problems should be kept private just before they all began to dish on the latest gossip that surrounded him.

What do you think of the way the media has been covering Tiger Woods’ affairs?

Do you think when someone in the public eye commits adultery we have the right to hear about it or should it remain a private family matter?
 

59 Comments
MrsPiggy says: on Dec 08, 2009
YUP!! Comes with the territory.... Sorry Chee-tah... I mean Tiger ;)
Denisegrnk says: on Dec 08, 2009
I think it should be kept private!!! There's important things going on in the world that we need to know about!! Not "who's sleepin with who"
MadHatter says: on Dec 08, 2009
the price of fame. your privacy get shot out the window seriously. I personally thought that he was a good guy. he has a loving family, a wife and a child! and to find out that he went and done that behind her back after she was carrying his child? I'm sorry but its just wrong. He should have his privacy, no doubt about it, but he should have known better. To think he was going to get away with this? lots have been decieved...
sassysami says: on Dec 08, 2009
YES! I know there are bigger issuses going on in the world right now, but would you like to be cheated on? NO! Tiger Woods needs to pay for what he did! I did think he was a good guy, guess not!. People that are in the public eye need to realize that they are role models whether they like it or not! Start acting like it. Now for his wife she needs to handle this in her way whatever she wants to do! If she wants to stay than stay if she doesn't then go! She is the one who needs the privacy! TIger should have not cheated in the first place!!!
msfriendly says: on Dec 08, 2009
Time to face the music, Tiger!
swellmel says: on Dec 08, 2009
I'm not a celeb. follower so their private lives are not interest to me
luvmycjs says: on Dec 08, 2009
I don't think its right for the media to be in someone's family problems like that. Its disgusting and shameful to think that the public views celebrities personal problems newsworthy. Why don't they just air EVERYONES personal family problems then? No one would be so hungry for updates on this if it was someone they knew,right? Worry about yourself and your own family .
COOKIESANDCREAM says: on Dec 08, 2009
I think he is in the public eye so now he has to deal with it.He tried to fool ppl and his fans(im not one) by playing the good guy and beeing innocent.Now we know why he stayed so private. Its just a shame for his wifey that he had all this women.I ask myself if she didnt know it or didnt wanna know it.Because how did he make all those women be so quiet for so long? I am really not all into this celebrity stuff but then again he needs to pay for what he has done and he needs to apologize to his still wife big times..I think ppl are just interessted in it cuz ppl cheat all the time but cheat with so many women for so long? Its about how he tried to build an image about what he is not. The only thing i think is disgusting is: the mistresses because how can you enjoy taking another womans husband away, dont they have any selfrespect??are they seriously that desperate that they cant find a single man?
momagarry says: on Dec 08, 2009
I believe this is between him and his wife.
bongsrey says: on Dec 08, 2009
I kind of felt bad when this came out. It should have been private, but now after hearing about 10 different ones? I would have hit him with the golf club myself. How can you do that and still think that your wife will forgive you? Now that I have said my piece, people need to just get on with their own lives and not worry about the public.
Trinket says: on Dec 08, 2009
Absolutely not. It is a private family matter, and putting private matters like this on display is cruel - not only to the celebrity, but to their families. There is no reason that we need to know the intimate details of these peoples' lives, regardless of whether we 'feel like we know them.' We don't know them, and even if we did, it's still not our business. As for it being the price of fame, I must, as respectfully as I'm able, quite disagree - and for the sake of respect, I'll write no further on the subject.
SiLvEr-StArS says: on Dec 08, 2009
WOW , What a Asshole huh, He was with a bunch of women. I feel so sorry / bad for the wife and family. But yes, I think he'll be in the news for a while. Alot of people love the Celebrity Gossip.........
xntexas says: on Dec 09, 2009
Like they say "Things Happen For A Reason" Well I think there was a big reason this time. I think they should dropped it after they found out about the other women and left it at that. No reason to drag it on and on.
nonda1 says: on Dec 09, 2009
I think this should definitely be a private matter. Put yourself in those shoes...
pjclayton57 says: on Dec 09, 2009
When you are in the public eye you should be aware that anything that you do or say is news for the public. I don't agree with that, but it is a fact of life. The paparazzi are news-hungry and live off of others mistakes and mishaps. This is unfortunate for his family yet he should have known better than to think that it would go undetected and unreported.
BlondieKAA says: on Dec 09, 2009
While I agree that this is a private matter, if you are in the public eye your life is put under the microscope whether they like it or not, and whether it's right or not. The media and public seems to be very interested in the celebrity gossip. So even though it may not be right and we think it should be kept private, this kind of news does come out to the public when the person is famous. But I do wish for the family's sake, it was kept private.
jemappel says: on Dec 09, 2009
I don't really care on Tiger's account whether it's public or private, but I wish it were private for his wife's sake. Some of his mistresses seem like opportunists who want to be in the limelight and they give the media more fodder. I do think that text messages and emails should be kept private...that's just going too far and it's trashy.

Even more, I just can't believe how every famous man is a freakin' cheater...John Edwards, David Letterman, now Tiger...is there any high-profile man who does cheat? It's just crazy.
bozemanbrooks says: on Dec 09, 2009
People love celebrity gossip. I do agree that this is a private matter but shame on Tiger Woods for deceiving his wife and children. Iâ??m surprised that he was able to get away with 10 different women (there could be more, who knows). The media might be covering this story a little too much but he kind of asked for it. The way they handled the accident just made people more curious and had to know the â??real story.â?? Embarrass the hell out of that cheating bastard but leave his wife and children alone.
mazziemae says: on Dec 09, 2009
walk a mile in the other person's shoe before you judge so harshly
ruthterry says: on Dec 09, 2009
when you parade yourself as a "family" man and then go and diddle a bunch of bimbos (yes it takes two, women who knowingly mess around with married men are pretty much trash and probably have daddy never told you he loved you issues) and you are in the public eye well that comes with the territory. we all want to have our cake and eat it too, but real world doesn't work that way. Tiger = lack of morals and values.
ruthterry says: on Dec 09, 2009
and one more thing he probably didn't think he would get caught because of his surperior - above society rules mentality. even the way the cops treated him was not like a regular citizen would have been. I knew when they were mentioning no alcohol at the seen that he was most likely wasted on his prescription meds (which he was!)
ruthterry says: on Dec 09, 2009
seen meant scene
MadHatter says: on Dec 09, 2009
personally, i wont even want to walk in Tiger's shoes because i wont even think once on cheating on someone i married. Marriage is a commitment, if he thinks he married too early and he wasted his youth not testing out the water, catching more â??fishesâ?? out in the sea before being committed, then he should have dealt with it much differently then â??allegedlyâ?? sneak behind his wifeâ??s back. There has been a reported 10 allegations, however the man never admitted to the affairs or denied them. He has been vague with his responses, and he has every rights to be, because why does he have to answer to the public? What rights do we have to know about this? None whatsoever. He did mention that he let his family down. Did he mean he let them down by allowing his used to be private life shattered? Or did he mean he let this get out of hand when he should have addressed it when it first hit the fan? Either way, the man needs time. It is between him and his wife.
castingbread says: on Dec 09, 2009
Not sure if it is right or wrong to be in the media, but in America it seems to be accepted that if you are "paid" by the public--big time figures in sports/entertainment industries--the public "owns" you and get the right to your private life, too.
Marsha47 says: on Dec 09, 2009
I honestly donot care to hear it. His affairs are the one's who will answer to God for what they have or have not done. I think that whaever the outcome, if it's that he is guilty, then I feel his wife should leave him and take the WHLE fortune he has made for himself. She should then be made to share with their kids and she should retain custody andlive wherever she/they want to live. But once she turns her back on him, then she should make it stick.
vefauc says: on Dec 09, 2009
I realize that with being a public figure (i.e. sports, politics, etc) people are going to be all in your life, but for real it's no one's business but his wife and his! Fine, he did it and now we all know about it, now let him deal with the consequences of his actions (which I'm sure she'll make out in the end...who knows while the cat was away-playing, the mouse may have too!) and just leave them alone. No one REALLY knows what the whole situation is...
Lusadi says: on Dec 09, 2009
I'm amazed that the public even cares about this. When did people who are good at sports or acting become our moral hero's? It is sheer idiocy. I'd much rather never hear a word about people like Tiger Woods and hear more about actual news. The only time I feel it matters how one of these people behaves is when they are an elected public official. Otherwise, it seems like most of these celebrities are miserable human beings, particularly in the sporting world.
Ttolea says: on Dec 09, 2009
I think if he's going to be out there promoting himself as a wholesome, trustworthy person so that I will purchase those products; then yes he deserves to have this part of his life in the media. He makes his living off of the public and leading us to believe that he is someone that he's not. So we as the purchasing public have the right to know who it is that we are supporting and have the "open eye" choice to not support that product anymore.
momster4de3 says: on Dec 10, 2009
I'm in awe that such a public and respected professional would behave this way, and more so that he has such little regard for his wife and family. I'm disgusted and it really surprised me. I follow golf and am so disappointed in Tiger. So many kids look up to him and I'm sure Nike and his other sponsorers aren't to happy with him right now.
roxygirlie1021 says: on Dec 10, 2009
I think that when you are a public figure, you have to realize that you are not going to have the same amount of privacy as the average American. I guess that's just the price of fame and fortune. Especially given Tiger's history and reputation, this sort of shocker is going to cause a lot talk.
mamma_nee says: on Dec 10, 2009
Does not surprise me one bit but his business is non of mine . free scarf giveaway on my blog ends dec 31st http://creatingwithni.blogspot.com/
jmaciej1 says: on Dec 10, 2009
i think its ridiculous that celebrities cannot have privacy!
4vonnie says: on Dec 10, 2009
I feel that things have gone to far. I feel that he has done something wrong and needs to communicate with his wife and family, not the public. He did not hurt anyone but his wife and family. We should not know everything that goes on in the private lives of actors, sports figures, ect...One may say he put his life out there the minute he decided to have an affair but really he didn't. This woman is out to make a name for herself and get paid. They are both wrong!
cpns72 says: on Dec 10, 2009
I strongly believe in orivate lives of others and us, too. It is none of their businesses of what they/we are doing in our every day life as long as we do not break the laws. Not fortunetely for Tiger being well known golfer and I still think he is a good guy. He knew better not to have affairs with other women as he is married and has his children and broke his marrige vow. Why get married in the first place? That hurts his marriage and family awful lot. Naturally those people will do anything to get attention from media in hope to get money, fame for movie or book, etc....
Hatshepsut says: on Dec 10, 2009
I think it should be PRIVATE. Their profession has little to do with their personal lives. How sad that so much time has been spent on a FAMILY matter instead of something more important! How about showing missing kids, wanted criminals during this media frenzy instead of what Tiger Woods did? That would certainly be more productive. No, it shouldn't come with the territory. Why should their pain be allowed to become entertainment? What does that say about our society?
cybrown551 says: on Dec 11, 2009
I believe that we have a right to know what is going on with him when he is in the public eye influencing our children. There are so many children who look up to him and inspire to follow his footsteps. He should have been more responsible in my opinion. What he did to his wife was totally a disgrace.
girl17 says: on Dec 11, 2009
I think that his personal life has no relevance on his job performance. With that said, he is in the public spotlight and knows that no privacy comes with the territory. He is a role model and should behave as such. I am personally over all of the drama surrounding this and would like the media to get over it too.
sewhpy says: on Dec 11, 2009
As soon as a celebrity accepts money for company and brand endorsements, their unscrupulous activities are no longer private. Each of us contribute to their financial gain through these endorsements when we buy these products and/or services they are representing. Additionally, they owe the public and their young fan base a level of decency and upstanding behavior as they are role models for the younger generation. Come on Tiger, get a clue - what were you thinking???? I am also just as disgusted with the "women" he was allegedly seeing. Where are their morals? - Its not like they didn't know he was married. Too bad some of them will actually make money off this.
cleanliving says: on Dec 11, 2009
Bottom line, he has made his life - his name - a brand. By which he makes millions of dollars selling us products - using this brand. So like it or not it opens up his life and all that he does to the public. It is up to us the public to turn our television channel and not purchase the media hype if we disagree with the publicly. If we do not buy it, listen to, talk about - the media would drop it.
grandma2 says: on Dec 11, 2009
He knows lack of privacy comes with the territory. There are a few sports figures, actors, famous people who do a good job of keeping their personal life private and seperate from the media. They rarely do interviews even when they have a new movie out or receive an award. But unfortunately if you are going to do something illegal or what most people would consider inappropriate in this day in age of high tech it will not be kept a secret. Tiger Woods is not that dumb. Even David Letterman who never gives interviews and kept his personal live private couldn't do it. People are vendictive, money hungry and just plain back stabbing in nature. Tiger was wrong. Do I care? YES. I don't care to go on thinking this man was a wonderful husband and father when obviously he isn't. Can I forgive, forget and like him again if he handles this right? Yes. We all make mistakes. If we learn from them and grow as a better person from them we deserve a second chance.
athenspsp says: on Dec 11, 2009
Very sorry that his personal life interefered with his professional life. We don't love him because he's "an upstanding father, husband, mentor!" We love him because he's an excellant "golfer!" One has nothing to do with the other. Leave the poor guy alone. So tired of all the high horses out there. Take care of your own back yard, before you worry about Tigers!
heyitsdrea says: on Dec 12, 2009
Tiger = Golf Tiger is human. Humans make mistakes. Point blank. The only thing I look to Tiger for is advice, info, or tips about golf, golf, and golf.
PictureGirl says: on Dec 12, 2009
Sports Stars, Rock Stars, Movie Stars, so on... All want to tell us about politics and generally how to run our lives. They cross that line for their own gain and agenda with MANY not having background. Then when something happens in their lives they cry privacy. It just doesn't work that way. I don't want to hear about Tiger or any star using stardom to sleep with women... and I also don't want stars to tell me how to run my life. He is sleazy and now all those young men who looked up to him think this is what hard work gives you... the ability to be sleazy.
Angelbeck80 says: on Dec 12, 2009
I'm so tired of hearing about this story. I really don't care how much money they make or if they are a public figure or not. It's no one's business. I think that's just a cope out for people to be nosy. I'm tired of it being everywhere. Even on the news, and they use sources like the National Inquirer to report everything. Definite lack of integrity. There are way more important things going on right now.
DigitalDiva says: on Dec 13, 2009
My son and I agreed that we are both tired of hearing about it; if it doesn't concern us, why bother? It's blown out of proportion because of his celebrity status, and, even though it's wrong, non-celebrities cheat on their spouses/partners every day, but does the media focus on them? Nope!
waf3r says: on Dec 14, 2009
when you want to be famous and have the world know you this is what happens. you can't be famous and have a private life at the same time!! if u want ppl to know you, they know everything about you, get out of the public eye if you want a private life.
Angelbeck80 says: on Dec 14, 2009
I disagree. Their families should be off limits. People should have respect for that. They don't though. The public part of them, sure that's for the public, private life... that's no one's business. People make it their business and use that as an excuse because they can't resist the temptation. I'm not even famous and have neighbors that have to know everything that I do. It's annoying.
AimeeAken says: on Dec 15, 2009
The problem & reality is... this happens to people EVERYDAY.. yet if they are famous it is a big deal. They are people like you and me. If something happens in your private life, should be put it in the newspaper?
Kayleebabyxox says: on Dec 15, 2009
if he didnt want people to think he was a cheater he probably shouldnt have cheated so no i dont think it should be kept private.
bvannucci says: on Dec 15, 2009
This too shall pass......................Michael Jackson's funeral was almost a national holiday, Britney's last album went platinum, we still love Lindsay Lohan, Whitney's comeback was more successful than her beginnings................Tiger Woods is one of the most successful golfers of all time. He has been awarded PGA Player of the Year ten times, the list goes on. We like him for his ability to entertain us on the golf course. Leave it at that!
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