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Mackenzie Phillips Opens Up On Oprah
Posted September 27, 2009

Mackenzie Phillips shocked the public recently when she went on Oprah to reveal her account of a long term sexual relationship she had with her famous father, John Phillips.  The public remembers John Phillips, who died in 2001, best for being the leader of the well known singing group The Mamas & the Papas.  Mackenzie Phillips is best known for her role in the popular late 70’s and early 80’s sitcom One Day At A Time where she began playing the part of Julie Cooper at the age of 16.  Reaction to Mackenzie’s claims have been met with varying degrees of sympathy and disbelief.

According to Mackenzie Phillips she was 19 when her father raped her while she was blacked out from drug use.  Both she and her father were well known drug abusers for most of their lives, Mackenzie Phillips claiming she first tried cocaine at the age of 11.  Phillips told Winfrey that she did drugs with her father often and he was the one who taught her how to roll joints and injected her with cocaine. 

Phillips’ new book High On Arrival describes a 10 year "consensual" incestuous relationship she had with her father that followed the rape.  Friends and family of Mackenzie Phillips have responded to her recent announcement on both sides of the fence, some stand behind her and feel she is telling the truth while others claim these are false allegations she is making about John Phillips. 

Michelle Phillips, John’s ex-wife and ex-band member of The Mamas & the Papas has criticized Mackenzie for taking the news public.  She submitted a statement to CNN saying that, "Whether her relationship with her father is delusional or not, it is an unfortunate circumstance and very hurtful for our entire family." 

Michelle Phillips’ daughter and Mackenzie Phillips’ half sister, Chynna Phillips, has shown support for her sister.  Chynna admitted on Oprah that she has known about Mackenzie’s incestuous relationship for the last 12 years.  As to whether or not she thinks her sister is telling the truth, Chynna says that she believes no one would go to great lengths to declare to the world that they were having a consensual incestuous relationship with their father unless it were true.

As to why Mackenzie Phillips would go public with this information, she explained to Winfrey, "I understand this is a difficult thing for my family but nobody’s talking about this, and if I’ve started a national dialogue, then I’m forever grateful.

What do you think of Mackenzie Phillips’ use of a public forum to reveal incest allegations against John Phillips?

Do you think a sexual relationship between a father and daughter could ever be considered "consensual" as Mackenzie Phillips calls it?

34 Comments
tastebud12 says: on Sep 27, 2009
Well, I have to say good for her for coming out but why now, that is my question? I am sure that it was a hard thing to do, not sure if I could go public but then again, she is well know and it would get out anyhow.
jemappel says: on Sep 27, 2009
I think there is no such thing as a "consensual" sexual relationship b/c a father and daughter. She probably has to convince herself that it was consensual b/c it she acknowledges what her father did to her, the fury would probably destroy her. I mean, giving your kid drugs at that young an age? This situation is one of the most disgusting things I've ever heard of, and it's just tragic for Mackenzie as well as many people around her.
lnlygrl96 says: on Sep 27, 2009
I'm sorry to hear what a hard life she had to live!! How can you ever get close to your father after he done something like that to you. I couldn't even think of hugging my father after something like that.
SiLvEr-StArS says: on Sep 28, 2009
Wow huh, So Sad,What he did to her, It's very Scary to even think about what else want on? Either way you look at it, It's still Gross and Sick that Any1, never mind a parent could do such a thing. And he got away with it is even Sicker!!!!
junconventional says: on Sep 28, 2009
I have an issue with her deciding to go public when the person isn't there to defend or speak for themselves. She was nineteen and realizing that she was on drugs, I'm not sure how she could convince herself to continue that relationship. I'm not sure how he decided that was a proper relationship either.
Chanfan says: on Sep 28, 2009
I hope that by her going public and saying outloud what she has gone through, that the healing process will begin for her. We trust our parents and family members to protect us and guide us to lead a healthy and productive life. When something like this happens, the victim tends to try and find reasons to validate why the person harmed them in this way. She is in my thoughts and prayers.
lbowlus says: on Sep 28, 2009
I think that it is perfectly rational for her to go public now that her tormentor is dead. Now she can confront it without him too going on tv and declaring her a liar thus victimizing her again only this time publicly. Look at how her family is victimizing and they weren't even involved. Although on some level they knew and didn't want to know. I believe her. I have no reason not to. And even if she had been a chronic liar in the past and came out with this whopper now. I have to believe their is a Kernel of truth in everything a lair says. So, at least some of this happened. Her step mom only is concerned with how this make HER look. Not about McKenzey. She should really be ashamed of herself for saying anything at all. She only wants to get publicity for her dead career.
britt8baby says: on Sep 28, 2009
After hearing so much buzz about this episode, i decided to watch it. i have mixed feelings. i don't understand why she is coming out and saying this. in my opinion, some things are meant to be kept either competely private, or only be told to the people that should know such as a therapist, close family members and close friends. i am quite confused as to why she has come out saying all of this. her poor son, what he must be going through. what about the girl that was married to her father, how embaressing for her. i don't know. i just don't think that this issue is something that should be this public.
shashuna32 says: on Sep 28, 2009
Being a survivor of incest myself, I believe if she felt the need to tell what happened to her as a way of dealing with her pain, then who are any of us to judge her. That's whats wrong with a lot of families who have had this happen, people are being too quiet, but to bring it out makes the situation real. Some of my family still don't believe me, but I continue to go on with life. Yes, I have forgiven those who did what they did, but I have not forgotten. An incident occured with my four year old ( at the time) daughter where she was molested by two of her 13 year old cousins. So I just suggest that anyone who knows that a curse like that haunts your family speak up before it happens to someone you love.
pjkrotz says: on Sep 29, 2009
I have never had this happen to me, but I agree, we can't judge her for the decision she made to speak out. That is a terrible thing to happen and hopefully she can speak to someone who can help her now. Although I am sure, it will take some time, maybe she can being to heal now.
PaulaK says: on Sep 29, 2009
It must have taken incredible strength for her to come out on the Oprah show. For everyone who wonders why she came out with this now, keep in mind that she did tell her sister and others twelve years ago. Also, other people in her father's band were aware of what was going on as it was happening. I don't think this is something she fabricated. I think that this is just when she felt confident enough in herself to reveal the awful skeletons in her closet. I'm rooting for her.
msfriendly says: on Sep 29, 2009
I cannot even imagine the life that some people have or have had. I hope she sees this as a cleansing and can now enjoy the rest of her life.
crysrocke says: on Sep 29, 2009
I'm very sorry for any woman that has has this happen to them. What I don't understand is that she was 18 when it happened. When it first happened, why didn't she tell anyone or get away from him? It seems bizzarre to be a young woman making money, having a career and not being able to reject her father's sexual advances. I understand she admired him but a 10 year sexual relationship into adulthood doesn't make sense to me. As stated on Oprah, she knew better and her father was a creep.
momagarry says: on Sep 29, 2009
I am just at a lost of words. I do not know how to respond to this show. I was blown away.
crystal_s2007 says: on Sep 29, 2009
this is horrible & confusing to me. how could a father possibly do such a thing to his own daughter is something i will never be able to understand. it is just absolutely sickening and yet so sad! i think the woman is honestly telling the truth about this. i don't care if she was on drugs or what, there is no way someone could fabricate such an awful & disturbing story. i don't know how she kept this bottled inside for such a long amount of time, maybe if she had told someone the first time it occured she wouldn't have been led down the path which she has but this was not at all her fault & i hate that the poor woman is being so awfully criticized for sharing this. this is the first step in her getting on the right path & being able to continue on with a sober life afterall...
deegaroo says: on Sep 30, 2009
If what she is saying is true, I feel awful for her, but I'm extremely skeptical of the validity of her story. She has a history of lying, do drugs and anything else to get attention & to get money. Also her family doesn't believer her. This is something that doesn't belong in a public forum. It just doesn't.
patty_jo says: on Sep 30, 2009
This kind of stuff should never be made public. Hollywood is really trashy these days. This is exactly the reason I do not watch tv much anymore. I watch what I want online. I will get off my soap box now.
karlav87 says: on Oct 01, 2009
No wonder she is/was a druggie. Nasty!
jenndta says: on Oct 01, 2009
I think it's just awful. It explains why she has had a problem staying clean. I hope she gains support and prayers in this tough time.
latinamom says: on Oct 01, 2009
I am very sorry for everything that she had to go through starting at an early age. What John Phillips did to Mackenzie is sickening. From introducing her to drugs to raping her and for continuing to abuse her for so many years. For those of you that are skeptical, it is said that other people knew about their relationship (this coming from the daughter of another member of the group). I can't imagine what she went through. It's hard enough being taken advantage from a stranger or friend, but from your own father....My prayers are with her.
ygarza5 says: on Oct 01, 2009
Tat is a very scary thing. I hope she is lying. But at the same time why would she? ANd of course if she is saying it is consensual then it was.
rulistenin says: on Oct 02, 2009
The media has put so much focus on "the act" rather than the underlying problem, which is 'betrayal'. Mackenzie is probably a victim of trying to gain a parent's love and approval. She put her dad on a pedistal, in which he finally fell off of. The most painful kind of Betrayal is when it comes from a family member... especially a parent. (Sadly, I can say all this from experience. It was a different form of betrayal that I experienced, and it split the family. Other siblings who didn't go through the same hurtful games have no clue how significant the internal pain can be). I just pray God will help Mackenzie make it through, and one day maybe she will be able to let go of the sorrow.
Jen7145 says: on Oct 05, 2009
She is selling a book. It seems whenever someone is putting a book out there, it is no holds barred. Though I really do not know how I actually feel about this . . . "Should it be kept private?" . . . "Should you make it public?" Obviously she has come to grips with what went on in her life, otherwise she would not be broadcasting it to the world.
Alyssarae92293 says: on Oct 07, 2009
She waited too long to say somthing abotu it......I mean the dad's dead! Now all its doing is damage
marlam says: on Oct 08, 2009
I guess we will never know the real truth and it is very sad if true. How convenient that this has added fuel to her new book. It never would have sld without ths
mommymomo says: on Oct 13, 2009
Reagrdless of what may have happened, this. in my opinion, is a desperate attempt for money and attention. Her life is her business. As I commented in the David Letterman blog, booty calls are none of my business. If she is truly a survivor of an unwanted sexual act or acts, coming out with this may be cathartic, however, this should be done in a therapists office, not on TV. This woman has had a life of severe drug abuse, alcohol problems, and eating disorders. Were these caused by her incestuous relationship? Not for us to decide. She needs to get help. My opinion only! Also, if her father is dead, it goes unsubstansiated. How is that fair? In that same breath, if he is guilty, he should be condemed by a jury of his peers. But not the jury of the public. We cannot be expected to decide on one side of a story. I could tell you I had an affair with Soupy Sales. Have I? He cannot deny it, so then it must be true. Think about it!
L_camille says: on Oct 14, 2009
Writing a book about this kind of thing just bothers me...yes it is very sad what happend to her..what her father did to her, but how could you even stand to be in the same room with ANY man who did something like this to you..especially your father.
Eleanor says: on Oct 15, 2009
If you read John Phillip's book you will see that his brain was so completely ruined by drug use that ANYTHING seemed reasonable. It would be impossible for a relationship between a child and her Father to be "consentual". Papa John was driven by demons of his own doing and sadly for his daughter, Mackenzie was victimized. It is the saddest kind of child abuse because fame and money had everyone involved dazzled into denial,
luvz2shop says: on Oct 22, 2009
Wish she would have kept it to herself!
cybrown551 says: on Oct 25, 2009
I don?t think that a sexual relationship between a daughter and father is ever ?consensual.? I call it rape. A child is not responsible when it comes to having sex with an adult. I think that she should look into more therapy because if she still believe that she had a choice than she is not ready to therapy or share her story with the public. She is still in denial.
Dwalker says: on Oct 26, 2009
I understand the release you can get from airing your dirty laundry, but writing a book seems to be a little much! I guess she needed the money.
marylynnf says: on Nov 05, 2009
She is a rape victim plain and simple and she is justifying like victims can do to make it a tolerable situation. The release of the book may be her therapy. Do I think she is lying NO WAY. Do I believe the drugs helped her through the situation - absolutely - dull the pain, push away the memories. Besides at the time no one probably believed her and she was most likely threatened. This is NOT sex - rape never is it is all about power and control. She is a victim and blaming her is not an answer. Blaming is like being raped all over again. She could never make enough money from the book to make up for the damage this has caused her physically and emotionally.
AimeeAken says: on Nov 12, 2009
It is never consensual if it is with a child. With her own father? EWWWW?
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