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We Secretly Want More Than The Salad

We Secretly Want More Than The Salad
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By SheSpeaks
on Aug 11, 2009 :: comments image 67 Comments
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Have you ever found yourself ordering the small salad while on a date when you know you would rather be eating the large pasta dish?  If so, you’re not alone.  A new study  conducted by researchers from McMasters University in Ontario, Canada and published in the journal Appetite shows that women tend to eat a lot less when they are dining with men.

The researchers focused on diners in three different university cafeterias.  Conductor of the study, Meredith Young, saw again and again that the women who dined with men consumed far fewer calories than the women who dined with other women.  Women who dined in mixed groups with both men and women took in fewer calories as well.  Interestingly, the groups with the higher levels of men had women who chose the food lowest in calories for their meal. 

Unlike the women, men seemed completely unfazed by the amount of women within their dining groups.  The study found that men consumed the same amount of calories whether they were with women or not.  So what does this say about the way we eat?

Young theorizes that the diet industry may be to blame  The media has conditioned women to feel that men will perceive them as being more feminine and attractive if they consume low calorie foods and smaller portions while dining.  The calorie consumption differences may be especially pronounced in the college cafeteria setting as most women are very young and single.  It would be interesting to see if these results changed with women of different age groups and ralationship status.

Do the findings from this study surprise you?

Have you ever found yourself ordering a smaller portion when out with men?

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tmosier00  ::  on Sep 18, 2009  

I love to eat and I certainly don't hide that from men I dine with. (When I would go on a date, I would tone it down...I'm trying to impress the guy or something). I'm married now so the mystery is out so no need to put on a facade. I work with a lot of men, public accounting-still a man's world, and I have a lot of lunches/dinners for client relations. I just don't have any reason to "impress" men at this point in my life.

mommymomo  ::  on Sep 25, 2009  

Not me, I eat what I want. I feel as though I may eat to much, however, we all have our vices. Am I exploding with fat? Not sure, but I do not play the wimp and just eat salad. if I am to dine out, I am going to be who I am and eat what I like. Unfortunately, even though being overweight is bad, society wants us to be underweight and that is not good either. AS long as you know your limits, enjoy!

momagarry  ::  on Sep 29, 2009  

Well I guess my husband and I have been together so long I eat more than he does...LOL

Alyssarae92293  ::  on Oct 14, 2009  

This is not a big suprise at all! But i would be completly comfortable with eating anything when i'm with my friends.

thinkinggirl  ::  on Oct 26, 2009  

Over the past 15 months i have lost 55 pounds and kept it off by eating 3 meals and 2 snacks every day along with walking.I was able to do this by eating what is consider smaller potions.And there is no craving because I eat foods that are filling and nutritious,as I cook a lot home so i know just what goes into my food.I also dont use a lot of salt.So when I go out to dinner with my husband I always eat a hearty but balance meal and if I over do my self,the next day i cut back on one of my snacks.i am proud of myself,and my determination to stay healthjy.

farmerbrown2002  ::  on Nov 02, 2009  

I love salad but its usually with meals.I eat what I enjoy.

SZYmom  ::  on Nov 03, 2009  

Well many times if I am out to eat I would tend not to eat too much, or too quickly.. not really for appearences sake.. more for the reason (little embaressing) that if I eat to much I tend to get, shall we say.. gassy. It's just my digestive system- also depends on what I eat. So when going out with either sex I would tend to eat lighter, just to avoid stomach pains and embarresment and all that. I do have a very sensative digestive system, it is not to much fun!

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